Jane......

2007-11-30 17:56:56

Cordelia Jane....is that your real name? It's such a lovely name!!!
I truly mean that.
Now don't be worried for a second about what to wear!!! Not even a
1/2 second...please try to be there so we can share some laughs
and 'in person' encouragement.
As I said, I know people wear very casual to dressy
clothes...hmmmmmmm I'll wear jeans if it'd make you feel better...I
am serious, Jane.
The patient is up and I made him some low fat blueberry muffins and a
fresh pot of coffee with fresh orange juice...he's smiling. I
couldn't sleep so I got up at about 4:30am....am I nuts or what?????
Take care and I'll be anxiously waiting to hear that you'll be
joining us.
Warm Hugs from cold Illinois,
Jillllllllll

Re: [CMC-WLS] Invitation Info

2007-11-30 17:10:21

Thanks so much Jill! I'm going to talk to my hubby and I just may show up. It sounds like so much fun! I'm not sure if I have anything to wear but I can scare up something. I'll know more later this week.

I'd love to meet all of you guys! You've all become like family!

Love Janie

Linda T....

2007-11-30 16:09:13

I have my 6 mos. appt. with Dr. Houston at 10am on Friday, 12/15...when
is your appt.? I HOPE our paths will cross in the dr's office!!! I
always visit with Holly, Andrea, Kathy H and Tonya. They are SOOOOOO
SWEEEEET and VERY SPECIAL.
It seems like we go months without much happening and then BAMMMMMMMM,
everything on the same day : ((((( We'll miss you!
We're planning on taking many pics!!!! Have a great weekend.
Jilllllllllll

Invitation Info

2007-11-30 03:58:53

I 'ran' to the kitchen and got my invitation just for YOU.
Fri. 12/15 6-9pm at the Holiday Inn Select, 2612 West End Ave.,
Nashville 615-327-4707
They want you to RSVP to Medline 615-342-1919 by Wed. 12/13
Janie, this will be the first time I'll be attending...I'm flying to
Nashville on Thurs. As far as dress goes, I believe people have said
it's goes from casual to dressy...whatever you feel comfortable
wearing! I am wearing a pants suit.
I'll be looking for you!!!! I always enjoy your
postings....Jillllllll

Wanda....

2007-11-30 02:39:07

Just a thought...why don't you call the hospital and find out the
names of the other hotels which give discounts.
WE WANT YOU TO BE WITH US!!!!
Hugs,
Jilllllllll

12 days of WLS

2007-11-29 15:44:12

Alright I completed the song. Will this do?

Debbie

On the 1st day of Christmas my surgeon gave to Meeeeee, Gastric Bypass Sur-ur-ger-ry!

On the 2nd day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 2 Chicken packs.

On the 3rd day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 3 cans of tuna.

On the 4th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 4 protien shakes.

On the 5th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, OH-ME-GA 3!!!!

On the 6th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me 6 calcium for chewing.

On the 7th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me 7support group meetings.

On the 8th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me 8 seminars.

On the 9th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me 9 new exercises.

12 days of WLS

2007-11-29 14:56:16

singing

On the 1st day of Christmas my surgeon gave to Meeeeee, Gastric Bypass Sur-ur-ger-ry!

On the 2nd day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 2 Chicken packs

On the 3rd day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 3 cans of tuna

On the 4th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 4 protien shakes

On the 5th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, OH-ME-GA 3!!!!

On the 6th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me 6 calcium for chewing

Wanda

Come on ladies

CMC Christmas Party

2007-11-29 08:34:52

I have a conflict of parties! The company my husband and I own will be
having our Christmas party that same night. I will be at the Dr office
earlier that day to get a fill. So I am not going to be in the eating
party mood. I think I would much rather be with you guys but I am the
Hostess of our Christmas Party. Someone take lots of pictures so they
can be posted here. That way the rest of us can see everyone and put a
name to them. Ya'll have a fun time.
Linda Tidwell
Dr Houston (Lap Band) 11/06/06
210/189/135

Re: [CMC-WLS] Another one of those WOW moments

2007-11-28 20:18:39

Heehee! What's even better is when your bat wings are hanging out the car window and "dance."

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Sandi <rlrsbaby@...

Hey gals & guys, Have you noticed that when you are drying your hands
under one of those blow dryers in the restrooms that you skin actually
does a little dance. Well that's what I call it. That is the strangest
feelings.
Sandi R
8/28/06
Dr, Olsen
331/269/151

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Christmas Party

2007-11-28 18:51:45

Janie, Please come to the party if you want to. I look forward to
meeting you. My hubby hasn't had his surgery yet but he is going.
Hang in there and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sandi R
8/28/06
Dr. Olsen
331/269/151

Another one of those WOW moments

2007-11-28 12:59:03

Hey gals & guys, Have you noticed that when you are drying your hands
under one of those blow dryers in the restrooms that you skin actually
does a little dance. Well that's what I call it. That is the strangest
feelings.
Sandi R
8/28/06
Dr, Olsen
331/269/151

Re: 12 days of WLS

2007-11-28 07:26:39

Hey Sandi, I took the answers I got for 2 and 3 and refined them to fit the meter of the song better... and got 4 and 5 from their answers! Here's what we have so far!

<singing

On the 1st day of Christmas my surgeon gave to Meeeeee, Gastric Bypass Sur-ur-ger-ry!

On the 2nd day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 2 Chicken packs

On the 3rd day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 3 cans of tuna

On the 4th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, 4 protien shakes

On the 5th day of Christmas my surgeon gave to me, OH-ME-GA 3!!!!

Any ideas for 6 through 12??? send 'em on!

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer

Re: [CMC-WLS] Braclet or Necklace

2007-11-27 21:47:22

You can order them at the medic alert site. (www.medicalert.com) It should say something like:

"RNY Gastric By-Pass

No NG Tube blindly

No NSAIDS"

Sandi <rlrsbaby@...

Does anyone know where I could purchase a bracelet or necklace that
identifies me as a gastric bypass patient. I have been thinking about
this for sometime and would hate to get sick or be in an accident away
from home. I sure would hate for someone to stick something down my
throat or in my tummy not knowing that I am a WLS patient.
Sandi
8/28/06
Dr. Olsen
331/269/151

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Re: [CMC-WLS] A First For Me

2007-11-27 21:36:34

Awesome! Isn't it a neat feeling to know that you can still do something nice for others without it dragging YOU down? Great going girlie!!! You make me proud for ya!!!

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Sandi <rlrsbaby@...

It's the time of year when I have to start my holiday baking. Tonight I
made 7 1/2 dozen chocolate covered peanuts for the guys at my husbands
dispatch terminal. I have made these for years for the dispatchers and
drivers. The first for me was I don't have a desire to even taste one.
In fact I can hardly stand to smell them. I love chocolate and peanuts.
I am prasing God that I am not eating one, or two. Last year I ate
quite a few of those little goodies. YEAH FOR ME. I DON'T WANT ANY NOW.
Sandi
8/28/06
Olsen
331/269/151

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

A First For Me

2007-11-27 06:31:28

It's the time of year when I have to start my holiday baking. Tonight I
made 7 1/2 dozen chocolate covered peanuts for the guys at my husbands
dispatch terminal. I have made these for years for the dispatchers and
drivers. The first for me was I don't have a desire to even taste one.
In fact I can hardly stand to smell them. I love chocolate and peanuts.
I am prasing God that I am not eating one, or two. Last year I ate
quite a few of those little goodies. YEAH FOR ME. I DON'T WANT ANY NOW.
Sandi
8/28/06
Olsen
331/269/151

Braclet or Necklace

2007-11-27 03:23:36

Does anyone know where I could purchase a bracelet or necklace that
identifies me as a gastric bypass patient. I have been thinking about
this for sometime and would hate to get sick or be in an accident away
from home. I sure would hate for someone to stick something down my
throat or in my tummy not knowing that I am a WLS patient.
Sandi
8/28/06
Dr. Olsen
331/269/151

Re: [CMC-WLS] A CRY FOR HELP FELLOW LOSERS

2007-11-26 22:06:47

Hi Donna,
I had a little problem with eggs also in the
beginning.
Nothing as severe as you are having. I switched from
eggs to egg substitue (Better N Eggs) that helped me
and I still eat them from time to time. As far as the
diarhea, I had and still do have the opposite problem.
Me and Milk of Mag has become good friends.
Fell Better & Blessings to you.
Sandi R
8/28/06
Dr. OIsen
331/269/131

Re: [CMC-WLS] I found my collar bone....

2007-11-26 15:35:34

I bet she would not mind. I don't know him personally but have friends that see him and

I understand he is more McDreamy than McSteamy. If any of you watch Greys Anatomy

McSteamy can't always be trusted but I am sure Dr Houston can. So I was not at all

wanting to comment on anything but his looks since that is all I have seen.

Dr Olsen is my surgeon and he too is a very nice looking man. I don't know their ages

but I am almost sure I could be a mother to both LOL. I have never seen Dr Dyer but if

my information is correct he was the original doctor there doing the WLS. I am so

glad Dr Olsen came up with the laproscopic equipment since all of our recoveries

are speedier thanks to that.

As always thinking outloud. I could use some prayer bacause my food the last two days

has been very bad. Christmas time is so crazy. I have a party again on Sunday and have

pre-ordered my food so don't have to second guess that one but there are still many

get togethers to come.

Blessings to all

Wanda

Dr Olsen 08/16/04

280/214/150

A CRY FOR HELP FELLOW LOSERS

2007-11-26 12:42:14

Dear fellow losers, I have been having severe bouts of nausea the
past 3-4 days. I saw Dr Dyer Tuesday and at that time had had a few
that were not so severe and told him about them. I know in our
manual it says we are to expect that may happen for the first couple
of months.
My problem is I think it may be related to eating eggs every day
because it seem to hit an hour and ahalf to 2 hours after eating
breakfast. My first question does anyone know or have tried other
things for breakfast. Ihave prepared the eggs every way, poached,
basted, scrambled, example in book with cheese & mushrooms etc all
with same results. Today was the worst actually got dry heaves.
Each time the past 3 days this happens I have to lay down and sleep
it off so to speak. Also had terrible diarrhea this afternoon. I
was doing better first two weeks after surgery. I told Dr Dyer also
was having trouble gettin all my liquids & last meal of the day but
he told to stick with it will come in time. If anyone has any thing
to suggest or offer I would so dearly appreciate it.
Donna M.
Dr. Dyer
11/14/06
268/244/131

I found my collar bone....

2007-11-26 06:09:10

Oh my gosh, I was sitting on the chair in the family room talking to
the patient, Jim and I put my hand on my shoulder and when I moved, I
found my collar bone! Jim thought I was having an attack of some sorts
but I assured him that I found something I hadn't seen or felt in MANY
years.
Now this is a momentous occasion in my book....amazing! Thank you Dr.
Houston...Dr. McSteamy/McDreamy : )))) and he is! I wonder if his wife
minds these names????
Hugs from cold but sunny Illinois,
Jillllllll

215 Postings to Date

2007-11-26 03:21:03

Heyyyyyyyyyyy Friends, we're on our way to a record month of
postings..........it shows WE CARE ABOUT EACH OTHER....How wonderful is
that!!! There you go, Bonita...we're on a roll with our very own RAK.
I proudly sign my name,
Jillllllllllll

Fighting back against Size Discrimination/was Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-25 16:31:25

The first thing we have to do is stop "laughing along" when people make jokes. Raise your hand if you ever laughed at a joke told on you so people wouldn't think you were over sensative... We get taught to be a good sport about it. And although I KNOW my choices played a part in just how big I got, I DO have a disease that I can't help. The jokes aren't funny anymore... they never were. We all have to be brave enough to not laugh just to get along. Be kind, but firm. "I don't appreciate the fat jokes guys. Stop please."

Cathy, 12/20/04

Dr. Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
paperstocker <BamaBIT@...

You are so on target with this sister! My husband told me recently
about an incident at a company sales meeting where the boss made a
comment "JOKE" about another sale person's weight/size in front of a
large room of people. DH was very uncomfortable about it and when he
told me I said then and there that I bet this guy had grounds for
some type of suit (the former legal secretary in me came out! LOL!)
This guy that the subject of the joke is a super nice guy - but that
doesn't make any difference does it? It does have to stop...period!
Thank you for bringing this information to the forefront on ways a
person can respond regarding their legal rights.
Bonita
Dr. Houston
7/11/06
296/205

Okay here it goes.....

2007-11-25 12:06:20

On the second day of Chris-mas my surgeon gave to meeeeeeeee
Chicken Broth and Proteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen! Wow
WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Hello Tennessee and all points N,S,E &amp; W

2007-11-25 01:44:53

CATHHHHHYYYYY,
I am going to try to go shopping this weekend....I 'might' just try
out my new technique as I enter the store...you know the one....I am
going to the Misses Dept...I am going to the Misses Dept. Yes as you
said, I am sure I'll meet a new friend, the security guard!!!!
'Our' patient asked for bacon and eggs this morning. I do believe
Jim thinks he is still in the hospital : )))) but remembering how
wonderful he was to me when I got home from my weightloss surgery, I
made his request....OH YESSSSSS, I REMEMBER HOW HE BROUGHT ME MY
CHICKEN BROTH, SUGAR FREE JELLO AND WATER....YES IN DEED, I REMEMBER.
As I mentioned when I wrote about the nasty women saying the horrible
unkind and rude comments to our friend.....life can change for ANY of
us in a moment as we all know. We need to pray for these
people...they need help!!!!!
Wellllll, I can hear the walker coming my way so I'd better keep my
good eye open and watch for Jim...don't want anymore accidents before
the holiday.
Love to you and all of our LOOOOOSER Friends,
Jillllllllllllll

Fighting back against Size Discrimination/was Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-24 22:19:49

It has to stop. The Obese are the last people that it's not only "okay" to make fun of, it often encouraged! What will finally make it stop? We have to stand up for ourselves. As ugly as the Civil Rights demonstrations of the 60's were, now there is more equality. Hmmm... maybe we should start some "Obesity Rights" demonstrations. HA!

I mean, come on! We don't make fun of people who have cancer! Our disease is just as deadly.

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
paperstocker <BamaBIT@...

protected info and a little legislative action

2007-11-24 21:30:08

Judy, most of us DON'T know we're protected. I first learned that Obesity is considered a disability when I went back to MTSU in 2003. I was registered with the Disabled Student Services department as a student with a physical disability... Obesity. The university HAD to make reasonable accomodations for me just like the folks in chairs. (permission to use the elevators and desk with detatched chairs were the two biggies)

Just remember, you have to be medically diagnosed as Obese (that's easy!) and you have to CURRENTLY be under a doctor's care for treatment of the disease.

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Cathy
That is great information (and a great reminder) for all of us! Thank you so much for sharing. I did not know we were a protected group.
So I was just wondering if any of this group has ever contacted the state legislators about requiring insurance companies to offer coverage for Bariatric Surgery? I know it is very hard to get guaranteed coverage legislation. But it would be a step. The Session will start in January so now is the time to contact your state legislators. Is anyone interested in working on this? It will take time and force us to meet new people, write letters and probably meet with the committees that make decisions? It might even take more than one year. Are you ready to fight this fight?
Does anyone know if the Obesity Society has anyone who could help. It will take research and money (it helps to thank the people who help you by donating to their reelection campaign) I would like to see us be proactive and stop the discrimination by the insurance companies.
Judy Anthony

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
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Re: [CMC-WLS] Just a thought.....

2007-11-24 16:35:03

JILLLL!!!! I'm laughing so hard right now! I got a mental picture of you walking into the store, repeating your montra to yourself..... and them calling security about the crazy woman mumbling in the clothes section!!! hehehehe!

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

Here's the weird part....EVERY time I enter a store, I still go
directly to the Women's Dept....from now on, I am going to stop and
make myself think, focus and I'll repeat this...I am going to the
Misses...I am going to the Misses...I am going to the Misses!!!
Isn't it amazing what creatures of habit we've become?
Now about the group pic....I will be there with my camera...God
willing and the creek don't rise....and Jim can manuever his
new 'ride', the infamous walker!!!!!!!!
Hugs to allllllllll, Jilllllllll

Re: protected info and a little legislative action

2007-11-24 03:09:31

Cathy

That is great information (and a great reminder) for all of us! Thank you so much for sharing. I did not know we were a protected group.

So I was just wondering if any of this group has ever contacted the state legislators about requiring insurance companies to offer coverage for Bariatric Surgery? I know it is very hard to get guaranteed coverage legislation. But it would be a step. The Session will start in January so now is the time to contact your state legislators. Is anyone interested in working on this? It will take time and force us to meet new people, write letters and probably meet with the committees that make decisions? It might even take more than one year. Are you ready to fight this fight?

Does anyone know if the Obesity Society has anyone who could help. It will take research and money (it helps to thank the people who help you by donating to their reelection campaign) I would like to see us be proactive and stop the discrimination by the insurance companies.

Judy Anthony

Re: RAK Challenge

2007-11-23 23:18:29

Bonita, what a thoughtful and kind idea!!!!!! COUNT ME IN....
Just had a thought....does helping a 57 years old who had hip surgery
because he helped an old man out of a snowdrift count??? LOL
I need to think about that for an instant...but sincerely Jim was and
is my rock when I was home recuperating from my weightloss and hernia
surgery. I've always said it's EASY to be nice to a nice person!
So many thanks for the idea....I bet you'll get many responses from
this group of NICE PEOPLE!
Hugs to you, Bonita...WE APPRECIATE YOU!
Jillllllllllll

Re: [CMC-WLS] RAK Challenge

2007-11-23 22:30:44

Sounds great!

I sometimes do "drive-by Huggings." Of course, that only works on people you know. Can't do that with strangers.

What's a "drive-by hugging?" An example: I only see my hairdresser about 1 time every 6 weeks. He spends the whole hour on ME, making me beautiful. So, every so often I'll pass by his studio, run in, give him a hug, then run out!

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
paperstocker <BamaBIT@...

Okay everybody...I've been thinking this over for several days now
and finally have decided to just throw it out there to you all. I
know what a tremendous difference WLS has made in my life and brought
back a real life that had long been forgotten. I know how truly
thankful I am to have been blessed with having WLS this year. I have
no doubt that many of you feel the same way. So..............here's
my thing....I know how stressed we all can be this time of the year,
especially. But I thought if each of us would take the RAK (Random
Act of Kindness) in honor of each of our surgeon(s) and their staff,
we could do something to honor our surgeons. You choose what it is to
do for your RAK. It could be something as small as letting a car get
in line in front of you from a side road, etc.; paying for someone's
food, dry cleaning, etc. in line behind you somewhere; picking up
(paying) for someone's ticket at a resturant somewhere; helping that
single mom get her Christmas tree inside her house or that bicycle in
her trunk at the store. Look for opportunities as their are many out
there. If you're up to the challenge and want to share it with us
all that would be great. Or if you just want it to be personal and
just say that you did the RAK challenge, that works too. What do you
all think?
Bonita
Dr. Houston
7/11/06
296/203

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Jim

2007-11-23 13:24:38

Jill,
So glad to hear that Jim is home and doing okay. I've meant to post
all week about that but you know how it is...such a busy week.
Something every night this week and something everynight next week.
Whew! Tired just thinking about it.
I so hate to hear about his injury and surgery as a result of his
good deed. I know it had to be a hard week on you all. Just know
you've been in my thoughts and prayers. Do you both have the same
health insurance? If so, you're probalby like my dh and me....this
is one year for sure that we've met our out of pocket deductible! (He
had back surgery in June and I had WLS surgery in July!) Can you say
bring on the New Year? LOL!
Hugs!
Bonita
Dr. Houston
7/11/06
296/203

RAK Challenge

2007-11-23 06:41:15

Okay everybody...I've been thinking this over for several days now
and finally have decided to just throw it out there to you all. I
know what a tremendous difference WLS has made in my life and brought
back a real life that had long been forgotten. I know how truly
thankful I am to have been blessed with having WLS this year. I have
no doubt that many of you feel the same way. So..............here's
my thing....I know how stressed we all can be this time of the year,
especially. But I thought if each of us would take the RAK (Random
Act of Kindness) in honor of each of our surgeon(s) and their staff,
we could do something to honor our surgeons. You choose what it is to
do for your RAK. It could be something as small as letting a car get
in line in front of you from a side road, etc.; paying for someone's
food, dry cleaning, etc. in line behind you somewhere; picking up
(paying) for someone's ticket at a resturant somewhere; helping that
single mom get her Christmas tree inside her house or that bicycle in
her trunk at the store. Look for opportunities as their are many out
there. If you're up to the challenge and want to share it with us
all that would be great. Or if you just want it to be personal and
just say that you did the RAK challenge, that works too. What do you
all think?
Bonita
Dr. Houston
7/11/06
296/203

Re: Officially back on track

2007-11-22 19:10:49

Julie - that is f-a-n-t-a-s-t-i-c!!! Isn't that such a great feeling?
You made up your mind and did it!!! How wonderful! Keep it up!!
Bonita
Dr. Houston
7/11/06
296/203

Re: [CMC-WLS] One more WOW moment...

2007-11-22 14:39:33

FANTASTIC CATHY!!!!!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!! It has really paid off for you and you get to show it in the best way. At the Christmas party on your mans arm. What a great feeling that must be!!!

You continue to be an inspiration to us all.

Blessings,

Tammy
CATHY SPENCER <cathyjds@...

Okay, most of you know that I've been stuck at 207 since June. This is the longest plateau I've had during my whole journey. BUT-As they tell us at the Center, I've stuck to the diet, kept exercising, etc. etc. Something good has been happening even though the NUMBER hasn't changed.

In June when I first hit 207, I could still wear my small 16s pants and only the big 14 pants. NOW all the 16s are too big, and I can wear even the smallest 14 pants comfortably. In fact, my biggest pair of 14s are too big now.

What's the point of this ramble? Although the number hasn't changed, I've toned. My skin is shrinking. AND---(drum roll please)......... I bought my dress for the Christmas party tonight and IT'S A BLOOMING SIZE TWELVE BABY!!!!!!! I almost just plopped right on the floor to bawl like a baby.

SO-if you get stuck on a plateau, don't give up! Keep following the plan and good things will still happen.

Cathy, 12/20/04
Dr. Houston
420/207/180
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Re: Just a thought.....

2007-11-22 12:34:07

Congrats to you Cathy! Woohoo!! What a role model for us all!!! I'm
right on the borderline between plus sizes and misses, depending on
how an item is made. However, one day this week I bought an XL
turtleneck in the misses, wore it tonight to a Christmas dinner and
gosh dawg it, I think I could have worn a large! But it does feel so
weird, doesn't it. And to have choices of different styles now is
amazing. I always went for the big loose things that would cover the
most (that apparently fooled a lot of people because so many people
commented that that didn't think I was "big" enough to need WLS!
Ha!!) My outfit for the party is a shorter top that doesn't cover up
my tummy and hips completely so I'm a little unsure about it because
it's been so long since the world has seen those two areas
uncovered....well, you know what I mean! LOL!!
I'm sure you're doing the dance tonight in your size 12's!!!
Bonita
Dr. Houston
7/11/06
296-203

Just a thought.....

2007-11-22 02:20:14

Here's the weird part....EVERY time I enter a store, I still go
directly to the Women's Dept....from now on, I am going to stop and
make myself think, focus and I'll repeat this...I am going to the
Misses...I am going to the Misses...I am going to the Misses!!!
Isn't it amazing what creatures of habit we've become?
Now about the group pic....I will be there with my camera...God
willing and the creek don't rise....and Jim can manuever his
new 'ride', the infamous walker!!!!!!!!
Hugs to allllllllll, Jilllllllll

Re: [CMC-WLS] A Group Pic....YESSSSSSSSSS

2007-11-21 21:13:49

Do you ever feel like security is going to come up to you in the misses dept and say, "I'm sorry ma'am... you don't belong here... you'll have to leave."

GROUP PICTURE!!??? Oh yeah! Gotta have one.

We're blessed to know you too!!!

Hi to Jim!!!

cathy, 12/20/04

houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer

jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

Cathy...girlfriend who I've never met....that makes my heart very sad
when I think of how cruel people are...ONLY by the Grace of God go
those folks! Life can change for any of them in a heart beat.
I feel soooo blessed to know you and the other great people on this
website! I will definitely take a picture with you and our other
friends....I bought a beautiful chocolate brown velvet top and slacks
for the party in the MISSES DEPT....WOWWWWWWEEEEEE!
I am HOPING I get Jim settled and ready with his new 'ride' his
WALKER so I can fly to Nashville on Thurs. We have a lot of friends
who have volunteered to check on him and be there if he needs them.
Isn't it amazing to have hip surgery and ONLY have an incision so
small that it takes a medium size bandaid to cover it???!!!!!
I also wanted to mention how much I appreciated everyone's concern
and prayers for my high school classmate, Ruthetta, as I stopped to
see her before Jim and I left the hospital tonight. She was wide
awake and we talked for some time. I told her about this group and
how many expressed concern for her. She smiled and said thanks!!!
Now I am excited about our group pic!
Hugs to you and everyone.......Jillllllllll

Re: One more WOW moment...

2007-11-21 17:07:15

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY GOSHHHHHHHHHHHHH, Spencer....a
size 12! I am in awhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
Jilllllllllllll

Jill...

2007-11-21 11:46:32

Jill,

I would like to thank you for your comments about Dr.Olsen. All that I have heard about him from the group have been good. I think that for me he would be my best choice. The sense of humor part doesn't matter as long as he is a compassionate doc. And you said that he was that and that's good enough for me.

Thanks Again,

Tammy

A Group Pic....YESSSSSSSSSS

2007-11-21 08:37:42

Cathy...girlfriend who I've never met....that makes my heart very sad
when I think of how cruel people are...ONLY by the Grace of God go
those folks! Life can change for any of them in a heart beat.
I feel soooo blessed to know you and the other great people on this
website! I will definitely take a picture with you and our other
friends....I bought a beautiful chocolate brown velvet top and slacks
for the party in the MISSES DEPT....WOWWWWWWEEEEEE!
I am HOPING I get Jim settled and ready with his new 'ride' his
WALKER so I can fly to Nashville on Thurs. We have a lot of friends
who have volunteered to check on him and be there if he needs them.
Isn't it amazing to have hip surgery and ONLY have an incision so
small that it takes a medium size bandaid to cover it???!!!!!
I also wanted to mention how much I appreciated everyone's concern
and prayers for my high school classmate, Ruthetta, as I stopped to
see her before Jim and I left the hospital tonight. She was wide
awake and we talked for some time. I told her about this group and
how many expressed concern for her. She smiled and said thanks!!!
Now I am excited about our group pic!
Hugs to you and everyone.......Jillllllllll

One more WOW moment...

2007-11-20 18:59:13

Okay, most of you know that I've been stuck at 207 since June. This is the longest plateau I've had during my whole journey. BUT-As they tell us at the Center, I've stuck to the diet, kept exercising, etc. etc. Something good has been happening even though the NUMBER hasn't changed.

In June when I first hit 207, I could still wear my small 16s pants and only the big 14 pants. NOW all the 16s are too big, and I can wear even the smallest 14 pants comfortably. In fact, my biggest pair of 14s are too big now.

What's the point of this ramble? Although the number hasn't changed, I've toned. My skin is shrinking. AND---(drum roll please)......... I bought my dress for the Christmas party tonight and IT'S A BLOOMING SIZE TWELVE BABY!!!!!!! I almost just plopped right on the floor to bawl like a baby.

SO-if you get stuck on a plateau, don't give up! Keep following the plan and good things will still happen.

Cathy, 12/20/04

Dr. Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Fighting back against Size Discrimination/was Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-20 16:37:37

Jill, HA! No charge... I've just "been there, done that." I had to look up all that stuff when I went to class. Get this, the state had JUST sent me to the MANDATORY "Healthy Workplace" class, then everybody-including the DIRECTOR of the division-was laughing at the fat jokes! Everybody but me. I put a stop to it right away... by quoting back stuff from the class.

Cathy, 12/20/04

Dr. Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

When I need an attorney, I am calling Cathy Spencer!!!!!!!!!
Isn't life grand....I just wonder how much she will be charging
me : )))
Jilllllllll

Fighting back against Size Discrimination/was Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-20 12:02:39

I've changed my mind... here is my price, what I'm "charging" you all.... all you guys and gals must come to me at the Christmas part and pose for a picture with me. That's my price. [INLINE]
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

When I need an attorney, I am calling Cathy Spencer!!!!!!!!!
Isn't life grand....I just wonder how much she will be charging
me : )))
Jilllllllll

Re: Fighting back against Size Discrimination/was Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-20 00:42:47

When I need an attorney, I am calling Cathy Spencer!!!!!!!!!
Isn't life grand....I just wonder how much she will be charging
me : )))
Jilllllllll

Re: [CMC-WLS] Tammy....

2007-11-19 23:46:14

Jill,

I'd like to set the record straight.... I did NOT come up with Dr. McDreamy and McSteamy. One of our dear friends here on this group did. I nearly wet myself when I read the nickname-I laughed that hard! I've always privately referred to him as Dr. Doogie (As in Doogie Howser) or Dr. Ken (My daughters have a Ken doll that looks just like Dr. H). McDreamy/McSteamy was a new one on me, and made me laugh hard. So-thanks for putting that giggle in my life... you KNOW who you are!!! [INLINE]

Cathy

12/20/04, Dr. Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer

jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

Hi Tammy,
I had Dr. Houston aka Dr. Steamy/Dreamy (gosh I laughed out loud when
I read that. Leave it to the #1 cheerleader to come up with that one.
Wellll back to the reason I am emailing you....it was Dr. Houston's
weekend off and I was still in the hospital. Dr. Olsen was on call
and stopped to see me. I REALLY LIKED HIM! He was very nice, very
compassionate so I hope this helps you, Tammy. As folks have said,
they are all great doctors!
Now about a dr. with a sense of humor....my feelings on that subject
are...#1 how's his track record? If it's perfect, I'll go to him and
then hope he has a sense of humor. If he doesn't, I'll be very
THANKFUL he is a GREAT surgeon with a spotless track record.
Take care, Tammy...hoping to see you at the party.
Hugs from chilly Illinois,
Jilllllllll

Melissa.....

2007-11-19 18:00:17

Hi Melissa,
You just proved to me that I am not too old (59 and proud of it) to
learn something....like Dr. Olsen patenting the instruments for the
laproscopic surgery. WOWWWWWWW, how neat is that.
I, too, had my gallbladder removed about 3 years ago and it was
a 'walk in the park'....it was done laproscopically as was my
appendix which was taken out at 1am about 6 weeks prior to the
gallbladder surgery! I don't miss either one of them : )))
I hope you'll keep posting....it was good to see your name.
Hugs,
Jilllllll

Re: [CMC-WLS] Fighting back against Size Discrimination/was Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-19 11:07:34

Janie, I've gathered some info for you to "share" with your boss for your battle.

Remember to use terms like:

"Protected class"

"ADA (Americans With Disabilities Act)"

"EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission)"

"Hostile Work Environment"

"Failure to Promote a Harmonious Work Place"

"Harrasment"

"Discrimination"

"Failure of Supervisors to Protect"

"Title 1 of the ADA act of 1990"

Here is the link to the federal law: www.eeoc.gov/abouteeo/overview_practices.html and I've pasted the text from the State of Tennessee's website that applies to your situation. Also try www.eeoc.gov/policy/cra91.html or just plain www.eeoc.gov

DEFINITIONS OF HARASSMENT IN THE WORKPLACE

A. Workplace Harassment

Any unwelcome verbal, written, or physical conduct that either degrades or shows hostility or aversion towards a person because of that persons race, color, national origin, age (over 40), sex, pregnancy, religion, creed, disability, (Janie, if you have been medically diagosed with obesity and are currently under a doctor's care for it, you fall into this disabilty catagory class) or veterans status that (1) has the purpose or effect of creating an intimidating, hostile, or offensive work environment; (2) has the purpose or effect of unreasonably interfering with an employees work performance; or (3) affects an employees employment opportunities or compensation.

To aid employees in identifying prohibited behavior, the following specific examples of workplace harassment are provided. These examples are not exhaustive; they illustrate, however, the types of conduct that violate this policy:

1. Unwelcome touching or near-touching, which can encompass leaning over, cornering, hugging, or pinching; sexual innuendos, teasing and other sexual talk such as jokes, personal inquiries, persistent unwanted courting and sexist put-downs;
2. Slurs and jokes about a class of persons, such as persons who are disabled or a racial group;
3. Distributing via e-mail epithets, slurs, jokes or remarks that are derogatory or demeaning to a class of persons or a particular person or that promote stereotypes of a class of persons;

B. Hostile environment

Hostile environment harassment occurs when a victim is subjected to unwelcome and severe or pervasive comments based on race, color, national origin, age (over 40), sex, pregnancy, religion, creed, disability, veterans status or any other category protected by civil rights laws. A hostile work environment may also be created by innuendoes, touching, or other conduct that creates an intimidating or offensive workplace.

1. D. Retaliation

Retaliation is overt or covert acts of reprisal, interference, restraint, penalty, discrimination, intimidation, or harassment against an individual or individuals exercising rights under this policy.

E. Third Parties

CONDUCT PROHIBITED BY THE STATE OF TENNESSEE

The State of Tennessee strictly forbids and will not tolerate harassment of any employee, applicant for employment, or third party on the basis of an individuals race, color, national origin, age (over 40), sex, pregnancy, religion, creed, disability, or veterans status. The fact that an alleged offender meant no harm or was teasing will not excuse conduct that violates this policy.

The State of Tennessee strictly forbids and will not tolerate any form of retaliation directed against an employee, applicant for employment, or third party who either complains about harassment or who participates in any investigation concerning harassment.

05-024

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Cathy (spitting mad about discrimination right now!)

12/20/04, Dr. Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer

Oh WOW, you've given me some more leverage Cathy!!!! That would really send my supervisor into orbit!!! I will definitely use it because I am going to ask my supervisor if he talked to the person. If he didn't then I'm going to exercise my FEDERAL and LEGAL rights!!
We were supposed to have our staff meeting today but it didn't happen. We got too busy. Hopefully it'll happen tomorrow. I just can't understand how an adult that works in a professional environment can be so cruel! I guess I was raised differently from some people or something! I got picked on when I was in elementary school because of my weight and I just always knew how much it hurts. I guess I just thought that if I didn't do it, then other people wouldn't do it. DUH!!!! Guess I have had a rude awakening.
thanks to all of you for your encouragement!and support. This has really hit me hard. Even though I let my supervisor know how I felt, very very sharply I might add, it still smarts! It also BITES because the woman who's been doing this is 6 ft and probably weighs 120! My mom used to say that "pretty is as pretty does" too, Tammy. This woman is not pretty at all!!!
Janie

Re: help!!, eating out for the first time

2007-11-19 08:20:39

Hi Donna T.....eating out was hard for me at first so I chose not to.
It was difficult for me to be in an atmosphere of eating, talking,
eating, talking because I had to TOTALLY focus on chewing.
Then at I ate before I went to dinner with friends/family. It was my
big chance to drink 64 oz of water at a sitting (just
kidding)....that's how I handled things until I had a few months under
my belt so to speak. It wasn't fun but I did get to visit with the
important people in my life. It was hard for me as I had 4 EDG's and
couldn't keep food down either. I might add that I have the EDG record
with Dr. Houston....where's my medal?????? LOL
I know someone else will come up with a better answer for you. I'll be
anxious to hear what they have to say!
TAKE CARE AND I'LL BE THINKING OF YOU!
Hugs,
Jillllll
Dr. Houston 6/6/06
275/213

Re: [CMC-WLS] Officially back on track

2007-11-18 18:11:07

JULIE! JULIE!!!!!
YOU'RE BACK ON TRACK!!!
CONGRATS ON YOUR 7.5!!!!
Janie

Re: Jill it's snowing in tn......

2007-11-18 17:49:12

Hi AGAIN Tammy, I just sent the other email to you and then read this
one.
How totally sweet of you to write me about the snow. Jim and I just
arrived home from the hospital. I saw your email and smiled....how
wonderful to know that you are thinking of him and we've never met.
I went in the family room to tell him about your email and he was
amazed. Jim said to give you a heartfelt thank you for remembering
him. He's a great guy who just tried to help someone get out of a
snowdrift. He'll get 6 weeks of vacation!!! He's use to being busy
so it should be interesting trying to keep him down.
Now don't get sick playing in the water : ))) and not be able to go
to the party with us next Friday...that's just a week away!!!!
Here's a warm hug from Illinois....we even got a little more snow
last night...that's it...ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
See you soon!
Jilllllll

Tammy....

2007-11-18 06:58:42

Hi Tammy,
I had Dr. Houston aka Dr. Steamy/Dreamy (gosh I laughed out loud when
I read that. Leave it to the #1 cheerleader to come up with that one.
Wellll back to the reason I am emailing you....it was Dr. Houston's
weekend off and I was still in the hospital. Dr. Olsen was on call
and stopped to see me. I REALLY LIKED HIM! He was very nice, very
compassionate so I hope this helps you, Tammy. As folks have said,
they are all great doctors!
Now about a dr. with a sense of humor....my feelings on that subject
are...#1 how's his track record? If it's perfect, I'll go to him and
then hope he has a sense of humor. If he doesn't, I'll be very
THANKFUL he is a GREAT surgeon with a spotless track record.
Take care, Tammy...hoping to see you at the party.
Hugs from chilly Illinois,
Jilllllllll

Re: [CMC-WLS] help!!, eating out for the first time

2007-11-18 04:05:01

Donna,

If you are on solids already, then you can always go with the grilled chicken or salmon. NO RICE! NO POTATO! NO BREAD! If you're still on formed liquids or pureed, eat before you go and just drink water. And remember, when you're going out to eat, focus on the FELLOWSHIP and not the FOOD. It's all about the fellowship...

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
bigdawgok1 <bigdawgok1@...

Okay, we our set to eat out at Applebee's tomorrow night And I have no
idea what I can eat. Someone Help ME,
Donna T.
Dr. olsen
246/223

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Re: [CMC-WLS] Janie.....

2007-11-18 03:25:08

Thanks Jill! You all have made my night!
Janie

Kym.....

2007-11-17 19:11:54

Hi Kym,
It's now Thurs. and I know you had your surgery on Monday so I've been
sending good thoughts and lots of Illinois hugs to you. I hope you've
felt them!!!
Please let us know how you're doing as we care!! If there is anything
we can do for you, please let us know.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!!!!!
Jilllll
Dr. Houston 6/6/06
275/213

Janie.....

2007-11-17 12:46:19

I am sorry to hear about such rude actions by the people you work
with....it is amazing how some people act to make themselves feel
good. I am very very sad to read your email.
But what Cathy Spencer wrote in her email is exactly what I was going
to tell you....so I will just say ditto. Keep us posted on how
things work out...hang in there. YOU ARE A SPECIAL PERSON AND WE ARE
HERE FOR YOU!!!!
Hugs,
Jillllll

help!!, eating out for the first time

2007-11-17 02:25:11

Okay, we our set to eat out at Applebee's tomorrow night And I have no
idea what I can eat. Someone Help ME,
Donna T.
Dr. olsen
246/223

Re: [CMC-WLS] Jill it's snowing in tn......

2007-11-16 19:38:58

Hey! A few flurries is like a blizzard around here! [INLINE]
Tammy Parker <bamagal4ever@...

Jill,
I was outside feeding and watering the dogs and ducks and it started snowing. I just had to e-mail you and let you know that we were getting a little bit of the white stuff now. No, not quiet as much as you, but a few flurries. And it is getting cold out there. To cold to be playing in the water..lol. I'm gonna end up with pneumonia.
How is Jim doing now? Is he out of the hospital and back home? Keep us posted.
Hugs,
Tammy

Officially back on track

2007-11-16 19:22:31

I just went and weighed in and officially I have lost 7.4 pounds this week. YEA!!!!!! It really feels good.
Julie Williams
Math Teacher
Western Math, Science, and Technology Magnet High School

Jill it's snowing in tn......

2007-11-16 15:44:31

Jill,

I was outside feeding and watering the dogs and ducks and it started snowing. I just had to e-mail you and let you know that we were getting a little bit of the white stuff now. No, not quiet as much as you, but a few flurries. And it is getting cold out there. To cold to be playing in the water..lol. I'm gonna end up with pneumonia.

How is Jim doing now? Is he out of the hospital and back home? Keep us posted.

Hugs,

Tammy

Thanks Sandi R

2007-11-16 04:11:44

Sandi,

Thank you for your input on Dr. Olsen, it really helped me alot. Just to know how deeply others trust him. I will keep your husband in my prayers as he goes through the surgery and please keep us updated on his progress.

Thank you again,

Tammy

Re: [CMC-WLS] Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-15 22:34:54

Janie you know you got one thing right, the ring leader is NOT a happy person in life & just think of how miserable her life is knowing that yours is great knowing that you are doing what needs to be done to get to where you want to be! We love you; hey...we can all be Fat asses together! hahahaha.

Kim

Dyer

7/11/06

324/252

Re: Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-15 18:31:52

Oh Janie ,
I am so sorry that your feelings were hurt today. I know it is hard
to look over things like that. My Dad always told me growing up that
when people talk about you and make fun of you for being overweight
they are actually covering up something in there on lives that they
are unhappy about. I went through school being made fun of for being
overweight. I know it truly hurts. Now that I have had my surgery (3
months ago) I still feel like some people don't want to be around me
because of my obesity. But I have decided that it is there loss, not
mine. I have lost 62 lbs in three months and feel really good about
myself. I will be praying for you and hope things go well at the
staff meeting tomorrow.
Blessings
Sandi R.
Dr. Olsen
8/28/06
331/269/151

Hurt feelings! (warning: language)

2007-11-15 09:39:58

I found out today that I have been being called "Fat Ass" at work by
some of my coworkers. Of course I'm not the only one being called a
name. Apparently they are calling two other people "Dumb ass"
and "stupid ass" as code names so they can talk about them without
anyone knowing who they are talking about. They never said it to my
face. It really hurt my feelings though, but I didn't stew it over
too long. I got mad and went to my supervisor. I have a feeling that
he's probably just as responsible as some of my coworkers by letting
it go on. He didn't make a whole lot of eye contact when I talked to
him about it. I love my job so I'm fighting back instead of letting
this get me down. The ring leader is not a happy person and
apparently is very insecure. She has her own issues! It still hurts
because I have never been called a name like that, well at least that
I know of. Why do people have to be so cruel????!?!?!? If they only
knew all got me to this point (a weight of 300lbs). But it probably
wouldn't make a difference. These people didn't want me or another
person to come to the cath lab to work. They wanted to keep their own
little clique! But I'm praying that talking to my supervisor did some
good. We are having a staff meeting in the morning which was called
after I and a couple of other people talked to our supervisor.
Apparently I'm doing a good job in the cath lab, at least that's what
my boss says and I feel good about it. Guess I'm just too trusting. I
just didn't think that people would be so cruel! I'll let you know
what happens. I'll be soooo glad when I have my surgery!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent!
Janie

Re: [CMC-WLS] Help............

2007-11-14 23:37:59

Hi Tammy,
Dr. Olsen is my Dr. I have to be honest he is a
wonderul Dr. and he is going to do my husbands surgery
on Dec. 19. I have heard other people say that his bed
side manner was not that great. I don't agree with
that. Dr. Olsen is very committed to his patients and
he only wants the best for them. He is this the most
hard nosed of all the Dr. by his own admission. If I
had it to go over again, I wouldn't let anyone but Dr.
Olsen take care of me. I have heard all the Dr.'s are
good and that all the staff is good also. I guess I am
partial to Dr. Olsen and his staff. He has the
greatest bunch of ladies working for him. They make
you feel like family.
Blessings to you.
Sandi R
8/28/o6
Dr. Olsen
331/269/151

Re: [CMC-WLS] Nashville party 12-15??

2007-11-14 21:33:24

Rachel,

Always nice to meet another December baby! My hubby and I both had surgery in December of '04 (the 6th and 20th).

We'll be at the party... and cheering our heads off!

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Rachel here in Huntsville, AL.
Is anyone going to the BIG event in Nashville on the 15th ?????
This will be the first time for me to make it, finally......3 years post-op as of December 3, 2006
Rachel
Total lost................188 pounds!!!!!! yee haa
Dr. Olsen/RNY lap

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Help............

2007-11-14 18:24:07

As you all know I haven't had my appointment with Dr. Olsen yet, I'm still waiting on my paper work(from my reg. drs.) to be turned in, so the insurance can approve the surgery. That's were I am right now.

Dr. Olsen did the seminar that I went to and I read all that was on the net about him, but if anyone that has gone to him has anything to add about him I would surely appreciate it. I want to be sure that I pick the best dr. to go to for the surgery. I mean I feel like they are all capable to do the surgery, but I like one that has a good bedside manner. Maybe a good sense of humor, or is that to much to ask?

I sure would appreciate any input.

Thank you,

Tammy

Re: [CMC-WLS] Shoes - Rings - Fingers &amp; Toes : ))))

2007-11-14 14:16:57

It's so funny to me the things that amaze us! I was fascinated by my feet for days! I used to wear a 10 wide and now I wear a 7 1/2-8 regular! The veins and bones at the top of my feet stick out... who knew all that was there? LOL

Get a temporyary sizer for that ring... I waited until I was almost at goal to size mine. (Oh, and Mike had HIS wedding ring sized down from a 13 to an 8!!)

Glad Jim is doing so well! I could hardly believe he only had a bandaide!!

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

Hello Ms. Spencer...your comment on the rings sure is absolutely
true. Jim gave me a beautiful diamond ring when I left for my
surgery in June....maybe he thought I was going to kick the bucket so
to speak??? : )))))) Well, it is so loose that I will need to get it
sized. I am very afraid that I'll not find it on my finger one day
if I don't hurry and do that. Someone said to me the other day that
I had such small hands. SHOOT....I haven't had 'small' anything in
years so I just smiled from ear to ear!!!! In fact, I think I am
still smiling. It's WONDERFUL to be soooooo happy about this amazing
journey.
Also, my shoe size has also gone down at least 1 and 1/2 sizes....now
that's increditable.
That's it from cold/snowy soon to be more snow...YIKES.....in Central
Illinois...home of 'those' Yankeeeeeees : )))
Hugs,
Jilllllllll

Shoes - Rings - Fingers &amp; Toes : ))))

2007-11-14 00:36:41

Hello Ms. Spencer...your comment on the rings sure is absolutely
true. Jim gave me a beautiful diamond ring when I left for my
surgery in June....maybe he thought I was going to kick the bucket so
to speak??? : )))))) Well, it is so loose that I will need to get it
sized. I am very afraid that I'll not find it on my finger one day
if I don't hurry and do that. Someone said to me the other day that
I had such small hands. SHOOT....I haven't had 'small' anything in
years so I just smiled from ear to ear!!!! In fact, I think I am
still smiling. It's WONDERFUL to be soooooo happy about this amazing
journey.
Also, my shoe size has also gone down at least 1 and 1/2 sizes....now
that's increditable.
That's it from cold/snowy soon to be more snow...YIKES.....in Central
Illinois...home of 'those' Yankeeeeeees : )))
Hugs,
Jilllllllll

Re: Nashville party 12-15??

2007-11-13 23:34:57

Hi Rachel,
Good to see your posting! I live in Illinois and I am now 'tentatively'
planning on being at the hoooopla aka Christmas party on 12/15. I will
fly to Nashville on Thurs., have my 6 mos. appt. with Dr. Houston on
Friday and then the best part......I'll meet the LOOOOOOSERS I've been
emailing all of these months!!
I wrote 'tentatively' planning on being there because Jim fell on the
ice and fractured his hip Saturday helping an old man out of a
snowdrift. He's doing really well and should come home from the
hospital in a day or 2. I'll see how it goes and then decide if I'll
make the trip.
Rachel, tell us a little about yourself if you don't mind. This is a
great group of people. If you have questions/concerns or just want to
say hi, we'd love to hear more from you.
Have a great day.....we are to get more snow in Central
Illinois...YIKES!!!!
Jillllll
Dr. Houston 6/6/06
275/213

WOWWWWWW Rachel....188lbs. GONE

2007-11-13 12:26:55

Rachel, I forgot to add my CONGRATS on such a terrific....I said
TERRRRRRIFFFFIC weightloss. That is absolutely positively AWESOME!
Jilllll

Re: Surgery on Monday!

2007-11-13 06:23:34

We are all very excited for you!!! Enjoy your weekend as you will be a
REAL LOOOOSER on Monday. I never in a million years thought that being
a loser would be this much fun.
Do something nice for yourselfe this weekend, take care and know that
we will be keeping you in our thoughts & prayers.
Please don't forget to post and let us know how you're doing. If you
would please sign your name, your dr., surgery date...and if you don't
mind your beginning weight, and weightloss. THANKS!!!
Jilllll from Illinois
Dr. Houston 6/6/06
275/213

Re: A New Amazement for Me

2007-11-13 02:02:31

Cathy,
I am so excited for you. Isn't it neat to find these small (but
wonderful) things that are happening to our bodies. Just last
weekend I went shoe shopping for the party on the 15th and realized
that I had lost 2 shoe sizes. That was just a weird wow moment for
me.
Congratulations!!!!
Danice
Dr. Dyer
5/24/06
258/159/130

Re: [CMC-WLS] Surgery on Monday!

2007-11-12 23:26:45

Good luck and happy losing.....it is an awesome journey!
eddiesgirlkym <eddiesgirlkym@...

Hi everyone! My surgery is Monday morning at 7:30am. I am getting
really nervous and need lots of prayer?! We are having another get
together at China Cottage Saturday so everyone who can come, come on
out. This is just the second meeting so there will hopefully be lots
of new friends to meet there.

Julie Williams
Math Teacher
Western Math, Science, and Technology Magnet High School

Surgery on Monday!

2007-11-12 15:27:14

Hi everyone! My surgery is Monday morning at 7:30am. I am getting
really nervous and need lots of prayer?! We are having another get
together at China Cottage Saturday so everyone who can come, come on
out. This is just the second meeting so there will hopefully be lots
of new friends to meet there.

Re: need some prayers here

2007-11-12 13:42:01

Laura,

This has to be one of the hardest things parents have to face. Our children do not always do what we know to be best or what we want is not what they want. Just know with God's help you can get through this time! When our son was about 14-16 we had some very similar problems. He is 26 now and is married with one child and another on the way and is a very good Daddy and husband and son!

Youth Villages has a outdoor program in Hickman county that was a life saver for him. If you would like more information please email me directly and I will be happy to talk to you.

Know you are in our prayers and that God does answer our prayers.

Judy Anthony

Nashville party 12-15??

2007-11-12 06:56:05

Rachel here in Huntsville, AL.
Is anyone going to the BIG event in Nashville on the 15th ?????
This will be the first time for me to make it, finally......3 years post-op as
of December 3, 2006
Rachel
Total lost................188 pounds!!!!!! yee haa
Dr. Olsen/RNY lap

RE: [CMC-WLS] Steve in West KY

2007-11-11 21:30:24

Where in West KY Steve? I am in Hopkinsville. You really are doing great. Patience has

always been overated anyway. Hang in there.

Wanda

Dr Olsen 08/16/04

280/214/150

Re: Mother and Son inspiration and hope story

2007-11-11 13:06:09

Weigh to go Matt and Susan!! Susan you look great and so does Matt.
I was crying reading your story. It is so wonderful that mom stuck
it out and fought for Matt. Matt will be a much healthier and
happier person. I just can't get over how great your story is. I
hope ya'll stay in touch with all of us. I would love to hear
updates on both of you. God Bless and keep up the good work!!
Karen Keen
256/180/goal 140

RE: [CMC-WLS] Thanks, Steve

2007-11-11 11:17:30

I'm doing fine Jill. Everything going great. I've lost 45 lbs and have not had any problems. I couldn't ask for it to go any better. Having to learn to be patient as you know but I've always battled that problem! :-)) Ya'll stay warm there in Illinois and we'll do the same here in West Ky.

Steve
Dr. Houston
10/25/06
353/308

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Re: [CMC-WLS] A New Amazement for Me

2007-11-11 08:36:30

It's funny that you should mention that Cathy. One of the goals I have is to be able to get my wedding rings OFF of my finger! I'm probably going to have to get them cut off! I hope not!

Janie

A New Amazement for Me

2007-11-10 22:14:38

Here is a new amazement for me....
I happened to glance down at my hands and noticed that even with my fingers "closed," or "put together," or whatever... I can see light between them! The tips touch, but there is actual space between my fingers now! Wild.
I suppose it should have dawned on me since my wedding rings have been cut down to a size 7. My HS class ring was a 9! But I've never had slim, little fingers, so I never really thought about them not touching...
Anyway, rambling now, but I thought I'd share.

Cathy, 12/20/04

Dr. Houston

420/207/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Thanks, Steve

2007-11-10 21:27:03

You will not believe this....ALL Jim has is a medium size bandaid on
the lower part of his hip. Now isn't that something!!! He is doing
really well. Thank you, Steve, for your kind words.
HOW ARE YOU DOING? I am so proud of you and your new
accomplishments....you are hangin' with the 'little' dogs now! : )))))
Illinois Hugs!
Jillllll

Re: Laura...sending hugs to YOU!

2007-11-10 16:38:15

I want to say thank you to all of you who have sent me notes and who
are keeping my family in their prayers . I am waiting to hear if we
can get my son into a 30 day inpatiant treatment center. He has a
detention hearing today . I have been on the phone all morning . I
just now finaly got a protien shake down .
Laura

Re: Carb Cravings

2007-11-10 02:15:50

Hey Sandi! It's your dietitian!! I just wanted to say that I am proud
of you for not giving in! The best way to stay accountable is by
keeping your daily food records, have someone you trust look over them
and ask you frequently how you are doing (in your family, at work, a
friend, or someone that posts to this site), or fax them to ME!!, and
keeping yourself busy, especially finding something you like to do with
your hands (not baking!)- sewing, playing computer games, scrapbooking,
making jewelry, some sort of hobby you enjoy. It also always helps me
to go take a walk or go to the gym when I'm in a munching mood and
after a workout, you're more motivated to stay on track and want to be
healthier and just feel better emotionally/mentally overall.
Keep on keeping on...
Pam

dan

2007-11-09 23:47:27

hey has anyone here tried bioboost i have for gerd and bloating my doc
put me on to it this stuff works info on www.shrinkhealthy.com

RE: [CMC-WLS] Laura...sending hugs to YOU!

2007-11-09 12:06:44

Jill,

I'm glad to hear Jim is doing better. Tell him we all are thinking of him.

Steve

RE: [CMC-WLS] need some prayers here

2007-11-09 07:40:36

I will keep you in my prayers Laura. My brother is going through the same type thing with his son. We know it's difficult.

Steve

Laura...sending hugs to YOU!

2007-11-09 05:41:59

I totally understand as I had a son who did the very same thing.
Tough Love is hard but I think in the long run, it does work.
Please know you & your family will CONTINUE to be in my thoughts and
prayers.
I am leaving for the hospital now to see Jim as he had his hip
surgery late last night. He's doing so much better! Thank God and
thanks to all for their prayers and concern.
Now take care of yourself...we are all here for you so post when you
need us.
Jilllll

need some prayers here

2007-11-08 23:48:16

I am a very big believer in prayer and Me and my family need some . I
am .. or was a big stress eater and post op have worked very hard to
break that cycle . Our teenage son is makeing some very poor choices
in his life . We went to court for the first time last week ..He was
put on probation at that time and still had some pending charges to be
heard in Jan . He was picked up again today and things are very bad .
I do not know when he will be rekeased back into our custady ..solong
as he is with us he is ok .. I send him to school and he just walks
out and he ends upin things he should not be into . Like I said he is
in Juvie right now . I am wanting..fighting not to stress eat.I know
we have done everything we can as parents and these choices are his
and the drugs he is taking and this is prob the best thing that could
happen right now but I still am just so torn . Keep me in your prayers
Laura

Re: [CMC-WLS] Mother and Son inspiration and hope story

2007-11-08 20:13:34

This is an awesome story, Frankie. Thanks for sharing!

Janie

Mother and Son inspiration and hope story

2007-11-08 07:38:28

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Success Story:

Matt Welborn

I want to offer a special thanks to Matt Welborn and his mother Susan. Matt had weight loss surgery at the age of 12. Here is Matts story as told by his Mother, Susan:
Dear Barbara,
Well here is Matt's story. Unfortunately Matt followed in my footsteps. I was obese my entire life. I tipped the scales at 330 pounds in October 2001 before I had gastric bypass surgery at Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore, MD. I successfully lost and have kept off 180 pounds now weighing 150 pounds! It has been 5 years since my weight loss surgery and I have never been happier.
As my son got older he was slowly but surely taking after me. I knew everything he was going through, not only physically but mentally and emotionally as well. He would call me daily from the school nurses office complaining about not feeling well when all along it was because he was getting picked on and didnt want to go back to class.
Like every other obese person, including the old me, we tried diets, exercise and nothing worked. I was eating healthy, therefore junk food in the house was not the issue. I slowly began the search to see if weight loss surgery was even an option for him.
I first e-mailed my surgeon at Johns Hopkins, Dr Thomas Magnuson. He said my son was too young and that no one was doing this procedure on children. I knew how miserable my son was and I felt every bit of his pain, yet there was nothing I could do for him.
I still continued my search. I finally read an article about the Cleveland Clinic in Weston, Florida. I was familiar with their bariatric program at the Ohio campus but only for adults. So I sent an e-mail to Dr Raul Rosenthal, head of the Bariatric Surgery program at Cleveland Clinic Florida. I told him of my success with gastric bypass surgery and how I wanted to help my son. I asked if he had any options. He immediately contacted me and requested I schedule an appointment and bring Matt to see him.
We first met Dr Rosenthal on January 31, 2006. He explained to me a new procedure called the Sleeve Gastrectomy. Basically this procedure is not like the bypass that I had and does not pose the complication of malabsorption like with my surgery. They basically remove the back 2/3rds of the stomach. Dr Rosenthal sat and talked with Matt. He asked him why he wanted the surgery. Matt started to cry and said, All I want is to be a normal kid. Both Dr Rosenthal and I started to cry. He promised him that he was going to help him.
When Dr Rosenthals office called my insurance company, United Health Care, they were told this was a covered procedure. I was ecstatic! However that was soon reduced to sorrow because they denied the authorization once it was submitted. I decided that regardless, Matt had to have this done and I would have to pull the money out of my annuity fund and pay cash for it, which was $17,900.
We then set off on the trip of our lifetime. The Bariatric Program at Cleveland Clinic required that Matt see a counselor. We went for 4 sessions and they were convinced he was in good mental health other than the depression from being overweight and they cleared him. But Dr Rosenthal wanted more. He insisted that Matt see not only a counselor, but an actual psychiatrist. We saw her and she cleared him as well.
Next we had to get the pediatrician on board. Unfortunately this was an uphill battle. Matts pediatrician would not support my decision to allow Matt to have the surgery. I researched so much and had the surgeon send her a lot of information as well. But it still came down to the fact that it was all so new and there just wasnt enough information on the effects on children and she would not give her blessing.
So I decided that if Mohamed wouldnt come to the mountain then the mountain would go to Mohamed! I searched everywhere in Palm Beach County for a pediatrician that would support Matts weight loss surgery. I finally found Dr Edmund Doering in Jupiter who, although an older and more reserved physician said he would not only support Matts decision to have surgery, but follow Matt before, during and after his surgery. We finally got the all clear from Dr Doering and completed all the pre-op tests which included an upper GI, ultrasound, and blood work.
We returned to see Dr Rosenthal on Feb. 28, 2006. Matthew weighed 287 pounds on this date. Matthew was cleared and only had to attend a nutritional counseling session before he was scheduled for surgery. We got the date, April 17, 2006.
On April 6th to the 10th, I took Matthew and his sister on a cruise to Mexico. When we returned I got a call from Dr Rosenthal telling me that he had to cancel the surgery. When I asked why he said that the hospital administration had heard that he was planning to do this surgery on a 12 year old and there had never been a patient that young to have surgery at that hospital. They were not sure about doing it. I was so angry. I called the hospital and requested to speak to administration and told them that I was bringing my 12 year old son to their office and let them look him in the eye and break his heart. Let them tell him the one thing that would change his life forever has been taken away from him. Within 5 minutes I got a call from Dr Rosenthal saying the surgery was back on.
On April 17th we arrived at the Cleveland Clinic at 5:00 am. Matt was taken in and treated incredibly well. I was so impressed with the hospital and staff. I was constantly kept informed what was going on in the operating room. Once he was in recovery I was taken to his side. The procedure was done laparoscopically so he was in the hospital for only 3 days. Matt left the hospital on 4/19/06.
Matthew has returned to Dr Rosenthal for all of his post-op appointments and has done phenomenally well. He has bypassed adults having the same surgery in recovery time and actual weight loss. On Oct. 27th, 2006 Matt returned for his 6-month post-op appointment and has lost 75 pounds! He has gained so much in self respect and confidence! The local ABC news station WPBF TV 25 in West Palm Beach followed him for 6 months and recently aired his story. They plan on following up with him at the 1-year mark.
I have attached before and after pictures of Matt as well as myself. I really hope that this story can get out and help other families of obese kids! Please feel free to post this as well as my e-mail address.
Thank You!
Susan Welborn
swelborn@...

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Re: [CMC-WLS] Donna M. has ARRRRRRIVED!!!!

2007-11-08 07:29:41

So nice to hear from you too "My Loser Sister" This morning I had poached eggs and like you thought I was in Heaven and it tasted better than any steak, ha ha!! It was delicious!!!!!! I truly don't mind the blender now that I have got the hang of it and am using Mrs Dash and other spices & herbs for flavoring. ( I am a little wierd though I used to love my childrens baby food when they were babies). I just cannot tell you all how much this site has meant to me, its like having a big family of friends, real friends who are always there for you and you for them. ITS AWESOME.

I can't say thank you enough.

Donna M.

Dr. Dyer

11/14/06

268/249 (next weigh in 12/05??? :)

Re: [CMC-WLS] ***Amazing Story***

2007-11-07 23:48:15

Will keep all of you in my prayers, Jill. God sure does work in mysterious ways. [INLINE]

Tammy
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

Hello Everyone, I know my emails can be lengthy but I hope you'll
take the time to read this.
I just had to share this story with you. As you may
know I live in Central Illinois but came to Nashville for my surgery
by the talented & handsome Dr. Houston. I still get on Peoria, IL
Weightloss website and read about the surgeries here. I saw a
person's name and the hometown where I grew up. This person was to
have bypass surgery but couldn't because she had hernias and bowel
surgeries which were done instead.
Then yesterday, my Jim, fell on the ice as he was helping an old man
who got stuck in the snow. Now he is in the hospital waiting to have
surgery tomorrow. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers!
Thank you....I appreciate it and I know he does also.
While I was waiting for Jim to have an MRI, I went to see the person
from my hometown, and sure enough it was the woman I went to school
with. She is in ICU...couldn't have the bypass surgery and is on
oxygen. She was able to hold my hand and say yes/no when I asked her
if she graduated from high school in 1965. I told her I would stop
in again today and hopefully a family member would be with her.
Now isn't that amazing....as she has such a different first name and
that I would recognize her by the little bit of info in this area's
website. I certainly remembered her and hoped she remembered me.
When I told her my maiden name she said yes, smiled and squeezed my
hand. How sweet under the circumstances. PLEASE KEEP RUTHETTA IN
YOUR PRAYERS. She truly needs them as the nurse said she'll be put
on a ventilator and will be there for some time.
God does work in mysterious ways.....it was meant to be that I read
the emails from this area's website and catch her name.
Take care, friends.....Love to all, Jillllll

***Amazing Story***

2007-11-07 12:11:47

Hello Everyone, I know my emails can be lengthy but I hope you'll
take the time to read this.
I just had to share this story with you. As you may
know I live in Central Illinois but came to Nashville for my surgery
by the talented & handsome Dr. Houston. I still get on Peoria, IL
Weightloss website and read about the surgeries here. I saw a
person's name and the hometown where I grew up. This person was to
have bypass surgery but couldn't because she had hernias and bowel
surgeries which were done instead.
Then yesterday, my Jim, fell on the ice as he was helping an old man
who got stuck in the snow. Now he is in the hospital waiting to have
surgery tomorrow. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers!
Thank you....I appreciate it and I know he does also.
While I was waiting for Jim to have an MRI, I went to see the person
from my hometown, and sure enough it was the woman I went to school
with. She is in ICU...couldn't have the bypass surgery and is on
oxygen. She was able to hold my hand and say yes/no when I asked her
if she graduated from high school in 1965. I told her I would stop
in again today and hopefully a family member would be with her.
Now isn't that amazing....as she has such a different first name and
that I would recognize her by the little bit of info in this area's
website. I certainly remembered her and hoped she remembered me.
When I told her my maiden name she said yes, smiled and squeezed my
hand. How sweet under the circumstances. PLEASE KEEP RUTHETTA IN
YOUR PRAYERS. She truly needs them as the nurse said she'll be put
on a ventilator and will be there for some time.
God does work in mysterious ways.....it was meant to be that I read
the emails from this area's website and catch her name.
Take care, friends.....Love to all, Jillllll

Cheers for Donna T......

2007-11-07 11:22:42

Donna T....I am soooooo thrilled for you and with your first appt.
update. You are a great example for the 'newbies' and the 12 lbs.
surely shows it!!!!!!
I drink tons of Crystal Light and carry my water bottle around at
the 'hip' so to speak.
We are here to cheer you on....Jillllllll

Thanks Tammy.....

2007-11-07 09:36:42

Hey, Tammy...thanks for the email response. It made me feel good.
Yes, I was totally in awwwwww when my longtime friend said she was
envious of me. Golllllyyyyyy Geeepers!
We will ENCOURAGE and INSPIRE you on when your big day arrives. This
is a super neat group of people. Know that I am keeping you in my
prayers now and thru your surgery!
TAKE CARE!!! Enjoy this holiday time with your friends and
family....as I said before, next year they won't recognize you.
Woooooo Hoooooo, won't that be something!!!
Jilllllllll

Sandi R....

2007-11-06 21:52:18

Sandi, I am truly sorry to hear about your brother. Please know I will
keep him and your family in my thoughts and prayers. If you need us,
we are here for you.
Hugs,
Jillllll
Dr. Houston 6/6/06
275/214

Donna M. has ARRRRRRIVED!!!!

2007-11-06 21:33:41

Great to hear from you and to read your wonderful weightloss news.
YOU ARE A BIG LOOOOOSSSSER! 19 lbs. in 2 weeks in just plain old
wonderful. I am very happy for you.
I know that blender stuff gets old and I was sooooo excited to have
my first poached egg. I thought I was in heaven....smacking my
lips...you would have thought it was a steak. In my mind, it was!!!
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF....keep us updated on your progress after your
next weigh in.....you go girl!!!!!
Your Illinois friend,
Jilllllll

Getting impatient....Sandy

2007-11-06 05:35:10

Thank you Sandy,

I appreciate your prayers. I'm so sorry about your brother.

I'll keep your husband in my prayers. Suppose we can be

impatient together!

Thanks for the encouragement

Janie

Re: [CMC-WLS] Day 2 completed and looking forward