Hello Chloe Anita! Welcome! We're glad you're here. This is the place you need to be. There are folks at all different stages here, pre-op like you, to several years out. We are all happy to answer questions... or just love on you and support you if that's what you need.
Keep in touch and keep us posted!
Cathy, 12/20/04
Houston
420/204/180
www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer
www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
chloe_loves_dragonflies <chloe75@...
Warning! This post may get a bit lengthy...lol.
Hello!
My name is Anita, but my husband (who is really big on pet names)
calls me Chloe, hence the ID, lol. I am 31 years old, married to my
soul-mate and best friend, and we have 2 boys (ages 10½ and 12) that
we homeschool.
At 5'3" & 300 lbs, with a BMI of 53 I am starting down the road of
WLS. So far I have already gone through a whole range of
emotions...I am very excited. I never thought I would be able
(financially) to do this. Then my husband, who has always been very
loving and doting no matter what my size, started getting worried
about my health and after a big long discussion we decided together
that it was the best thing for me. Excitedly, I immediately called
to sign up for the seminar. I started to feel anxious and worrisome
after much research via the internet, but after the seminar Wayne and
I both felt so very much better......UNTIL I found out that my
insurance requires "active participation in a clinically-supervised,
non-surgical program of weight reduction for at least 6 months" and I
have to be "diagnosed as morbidly obese for at least 5 years". Oh
my! You mean I have to wait ANOTHER 6 months??? Not only that but
the at the seminar we were told of a lady who was way heavier who
needed it, dare I say, MORE than I do, who actually lost some weight
during this time and even though she was still considered morbidly
obese at the end of the period, was denied insurance coverage because
she WAS able to lose SOME weight! How discouraging and God love her
heart.
So, yeah, I was discouraged myself after hearing this. I almost gave
up. You know the thoughts that go through your head when your
discouraged: "maybe this just isn't in the cards for me" "maybe
it's God's way of telling me this isn't right" yada, yada, yada.
Ok, that was 2 months ago. Believe it or not, I had been putting off
calling my Dr. I mean, if I lose any weight I'm not going to get any
insurance approval anyway....aaarrrggg! BUT, I got over it.
Tomorrow, at 10 am CST, I have my first of 6 Dr. visits geared
specifically toward my WLS journey.
I am sure that I will make many more posts here. I look so forward
to being among others that truly know what I am thinking, feeling and
going through.
Big hugs to you all....Chloe
Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/