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Cathy you are so funny! hahahaha, I am still doing my 50 a day, but just disappointed in MYSELF I guess because the weight either STAYS at a standstill or fluxuates TOOOOOO much for me, I just don't want Dr. Dyer to be upset or disappointed in me because I haven't lost the amount he would like to see me at.(can you tell that I like to try & please people) At the same time, I am happy that I am back to where I was 6 years ago though...thats a plus in my book!

Thank you Cathy!

Kim

Dyer

7/11/06

324/252/165(goal)

I am checking to see if anyone can receive or send emails. I haven't
received an email in a few days.....wondering what the problem is????
Jilllll

Before surgery I did one situp a day.

In the morning I'd get up... that was half

At night I'd lay back down... that was the other half. [INLINE]

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston - 420/204/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Tammy Parker <bamagal4ever@...

Kim....I personally call 2 situps a workout.. [INLINE] ...you cannot worry about who will be disappointed in you, you have to worry about you.
And sounds like you are getting off to a pretty good start with your
situps. Whatever you need we are all here for you!
Take Care,
Tammy
Hello Bonita and happy six month to you also! Can you believe that we have finally reached our 6 month mark????!!! I still haven't lost anywhere the 100's yet, Dr. Dyer will be disappointed in me I am sure. I am slowly.....slowly "working" out; if you count 50 situps working out, it helps me to keep warm also, because I get so cold now. My weight fluctuates BADLY, the other day I was at 233 on my scale the next day it went back up into the 240's!! So I Have reached a plateau big time.

I am so very happy to hear that you are in "one"derland, how much more until you reach goal? Have you gotten your taste of a little fruit in yet? I know you have been waiting for that. I missed the X-mas party, but you look "ONE"derful! (thanks to the pictures that Cathy Spencer posted) Hope that you had a GREAT New Year! Glad to hear from you!

Kim
Dyer
7/11/06
324/252/165(goal)

Hey guys I got some news today...my surery was approved!!!! But the

doctor that I wanted to do it, Dr. Olsen, doesn't take my insurance, so

Dr. Dyer has to do my surgery. I have an appointment with him for a

consultation on Feb. 27th at 4pm. I know that is kinda far away, but I

know that it will be here before I know it, right. I guess that by it being this far out I have time to go out and pick me up one of those mini-recorders...lol. I know I'll need one of those with all the information that is thrown at me at one time.

Hugs to All,

Tammy

Glad you are doing well. Hope you feel better everyday.

Wanda

Hi everyone, how are you guys all doing? I'm beginning to get back
online more and more often and am feeling better every day. No more
leaking, Old Faithful is done, LOL! I can't wait to get me G-Tube out
next week, one week from today! It is aggravating me so much! Every
time I sleep, when I wake up it has healed a little and pulls open
again...OOOUUUCCCHHH! Otherwise, I'm doing well. I am not getting my
protein in 100% but I am trying my best...I am getting all my vitamins
in and most of my fluids so I think I am doing okay. I just found out
that some of the proteins I was relying on are not the right kind so
that's not cool but at least now I know! Thanks to everyone who has
asked about me and sent me wellwishes...I really appreciate it!
Looking back, it was so great that Cathy Spencer and her hubby, Kathy
Hungerford, and Eloise Bray from the center, and Jill from Indiana all
came to see me...not to mention my wonderful 'angel' Paula Duncan!

Thank you Tammy, I am just going off of my last visit where I was told by Dr.Dyer that he would have liked to see me at the 50% body fat loss & I wasn't there yet; I am still BARELY there I believe.(If I knew what my weight was & didn't fluxuate so much from day to day) But I know what you mean, I am happy that I have lost what I have lost so far; that is amazing to me. Thank you so very much for your support, it means alot to me.

Kim

Dyer

7/11/06

324/252/165(goal)

Janie, The best part is it only gets better....Now I'm gonna cry....from extreme happiness!!!! Life IS GOOD!!!!
cordeliajane2003 <mjloyd@...

My dear dear friends! :x I feel so blessed to have met all of you wonderful people! I have had a good day filled with prayer and reflection! O:) I am feeling much better. I am more convinced that the surgery is the way to go. It's the only way that I will ever be able to continue on with my life and be here for my family and myself. I was just feeling the pure FEAR that Dr. Houston instilled in me as the "Serious Dr." As you all have said, that is how he gets his point across and makes sure that you are serious about what you are wanting. There is no room to play with this RNY stuff!!!!!
I can't express how much I appreciate all of your stories and encouragement. We have so much fun here on the board but when it comes down to the serious stuff you all are there for each other! Man, what else could you ask for!!!
OMG, I am so happy to have come to this point. Today I received a copy of the letter my PCP wrote for me. Reading it made me realize how much I need to have this surgery. I've gained 50 lbs over the last two years. That's with joining Weight Watchers and LA Weightloss in the last couple of years.
OK, I'm gonna cry here :(( cause I'm so excited and overwhelmed with what an awesome support system I have and a mercifful and loving God. I'm also thrilled that I figured out what I was feeling! My fear is healthy. Yes, I'm scared to death but it's what I want and willing to do what it takes to get where I want to be in my life. We only have one life so we have to live it the best we know how!
I love you guys! Thanks again! [INLINE] [INLINE] [INLINE]
Janie

Julie Williams
Math Teacher
Western Math, Science, and Technology Magnet High School

Hey all, Here is the proposed agenda for the meeting on Monday. There is a lot to accomplish. I would appreciate all looking at the agenda and then throwing things at me that you feel should be addressed that I have left off. Also, if you are able to be at the meeting please e-mail and let me know. I am making of packets of what I have so far. Talk to you guys soon.
Julie Williams
Math Teacher
Western Math, Science, and Technology Magnet High School

My dear dear friends! :x I feel so blessed to have met all of you wonderful people! I have had a good day filled with prayer and reflection! O:) I am feeling much better. I am more convinced that the surgery is the way to go. It's the only way that I will ever be able to continue on with my life and be here for my family and myself. I was just feeling the pure FEAR that Dr. Houston instilled in me as the "Serious Dr." As you all have said, that is how he gets his point across and makes sure that you are serious about what you are wanting. There is no room to play with this RNY stuff!!!!!

I can't express how much I appreciate all of your stories and encouragement. We have so much fun here on the board but when it comes down to the serious stuff you all are there for each other! Man, what else could you ask for!!!

OMG, I am so happy to have come to this point. Today I received a copy of the letter my PCP wrote for me. Reading it made me realize how much I need to have this surgery. I've gained 50 lbs over the last two years. That's with joining Weight Watchers and LA Weightloss in the last couple of years.

OK, I'm gonna cry here :(( cause I'm so excited and overwhelmed with what an awesome support system I have and a mercifful and loving God. I'm also thrilled that I figured out what I was feeling! My fear is healthy. Yes, I'm scared to death but it's what I want and willing to do what it takes to get where I want to be in my life. We only have one life so we have to live it the best we know how!

I love you guys! Thanks again! [INLINE] [INLINE] [INLINE]

Janie

Thank you for sharing your story with me. You will get back on track!

Go back to see Dr. Houston. I could deffinitely see that he cares for his patients.

Think about the fact that the "lecture" from him is probably no where near what

you are doing to yourself. Don't beat yourself up and go back to see him.

(((HUGS)))

Janie

Kim....I personally call 2 situps a workout.. [INLINE] ...you cannot worry about who will be disappointed in you, you have to worry about you.

And sounds like you are getting off to a pretty good start with your

situps. Whatever you need we are all here for you!

Take Care,

Tammy
Hello Bonita and happy six month to you also! Can you believe that we have finally reached our 6 month mark????!!! I still haven't lost anywhere the 100's yet, Dr. Dyer will be disappointed in me I am sure. I am slowly.....slowly "working" out; if you count 50 situps working out, it helps me to keep warm also, because I get so cold now. My weight fluctuates BADLY, the other day I was at 233 on my scale the next day it went back up into the 240's!! So I Have reached a plateau big time.

I am so very happy to hear that you are in "one"derland, how much more until you reach goal? Have you gotten your taste of a little fruit in yet? I know you have been waiting for that. I missed the X-mas party, but you look "ONE"derful! (thanks to the pictures that Cathy Spencer posted) Hope that you had a GREAT New Year! Glad to hear from you!

Kim
Dyer
7/11/06
324/252/165(goal)

Sandi,
Can you feel the pat on your back from me and the hug too! Great
going.
Darlene

AWESOME April!!!!! I am envious...I still struggle with the "ism" of my food addiction. I LOVE FOOD and with surgery that hasn't changed. Thank God, I am able to see my addiction and redirect (at least most of the time). I am doing so much better BUT still could do a lot more for myself. You are an inspiration to me. I would like to match your goal of 19 pounds by March 8.......Maybe that will keep me motivated......When you make it I will be YOUR biggest (oops I mean smallest) cheerleader! Keep me posted and give me a run for the money.......thought I would say chocolate didn't you :)
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

=D
Here's a BIG IL HUGGGGGGGG,
Jilllllllllllly

Amen

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston - 420/204/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Kathleen <javajunky06@...

Just something to share with everyone, I liked what I read so I decided
to share with all of my wonderful friends.
Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us,
the greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with
those we hold dear. Open our hearts not to just those who are close to
us, but to all humanity. Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive,
show patience, empathy and love.
Kathy G

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Weigh to go Girl!!!!

Franny

Dr.Dyer

12/18/2006

Just something to share with everyone, I liked what I read so I decided
to share with all of my wonderful friends.
Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us,
the greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with
those we hold dear. Open our hearts not to just those who are close to
us, but to all humanity. Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive,
show patience, empathy and love.
Kathy G

She is doing pretty good from what I gather. She posts on
obesityhelp.com Tennessee forum sometimes.
April

hahaha with all the shopping trips with my husbands credit card...
I've been doing PLENTY for myself hehe :-) Good suggestion though...
it is almost time for a mani ;-)
*hugs*
April

Hello Bonita and happy six month to you also! Can you believe that we have finally reached our 6 month mark????!!! I still haven't lost anywhere the 100's yet, Dr. Dyer will be disappointed in me I am sure. I am slowly.....slowly "working" out; if you count 50 situps working out, it helps me to keep warm also, because I get so cold now. My weight fluctuates BADLY, the other day I was at 233 on my scale the next day it went back up into the 240's!! So I Have reached a plateau big time.

I am so very happy to hear that you are in "one"derland, how much more until you reach goal? Have you gotten your taste of a little fruit in yet? I know you have been waiting for that. I missed the X-mas party, but you look "ONE"derful! (thanks to the pictures that Cathy Spencer posted) Hope that you had a GREAT New Year! Glad to hear from you!

Kim

Dyer

7/11/06

324/252/165(goal)

She's doing better. She's posted a couple times on her OH profile.

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston - 420/204/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Sandi <rlrsbaby@...

Does anyone know how Kym (eddiesgirl) is doing. I haven't read anything
from her in a while. Hope she is doing ok.
Sandi R
8/28/06
331/255/151
Dr. Olsen

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Sandi R....You are doing so well.....I am sending lots of good wishes to you.....can you feel them? Hi to Robert....how is he doing?

Hugs, :x

Jillllll

CONGRATULATIONS, ON THAT 106 LBS IN SIX MONTHS, I HOPE
I DO AS WELL ON MY 6 MONTH CHECK UP ON MARCH 1,
SANDI R

Does anyone know how Kym (eddiesgirl) is doing. I haven't read anything
from her in a while. Hope she is doing ok.
Sandi R
8/28/06
331/255/151
Dr. Olsen

Sorry. but this came to me in the middle of the night so thought I'd throw it out there too!

Second Chance Loosers or

Second Chance Winners

I think these are my favorites of all I thought of because as Dr. Houston told me at the Christmas party, it's all about being given that second chance! And I'm so thankful for that second chance and so determined to do it right this time!

Bonita

Dr. Houston/7-11-06

296/190

=D

Here's a BIG IL HUGGGGGGGG,

Jilllllllllllly

April My girl, I am so proud and happy for you 148 lbs
in 9 months how FANTASTIC I hope I can say that at my
9 month check up. You are such an inspiration to me.
Blessings
Sandi R
8/28/06
331/255/151
Dr. Olsen

And we're sooooooo thankful you're with us! Big hugs!

Bonita

Kim! Happy Six Months surgery anniversary to my surgery sister! I haven't seen or heard from you since before Christmas and just wanted to check on you! Hope things are well.

I went for my six month followup this AM with Dr. H. (Ironic that it's six months to the date.) I'm down (according to their scales) 106 lbs! I'll take it! My scales weigh me about 5 lbs lighter but what's 5 lbs when you're looking at 100's! Let me know how you're doing, okay? Hugs!

Bonita/Dr. Houston

7/11/06

296/190

Congrats April! That's wonderful! Keep up the good work. You can do it! BTW, today's my six month surgery anniversary date. It's been a fast and amazing six months!

Bonita/Dr. Houston

7/11/06

296/190

Thank You Ms. Kathy G! I "thunk" of it all by myself! LOL!
So glad to hear that Amanda is feeling better today. I had hoped to
stop by and check on her/you all today when I was there seeing Dr. H
for my six month. However, I've had some kind of upper respiratory
bug thing and didn't want to risk giving it to anybody. It hit Sat.
and didn't offer any relief until late Tues. I don't recall when I've
slept so much with a bug. It just overtakes you. Dh had it as well
as a co-worker and all had the same symptoms. Otherwise, I would be
concerned with the sleeping part but just one of those weird things!
Each day I'm feeling better but didn't want to chance passing
anything off on you all. But please give her hugs for all of us and
remind her that each days gets better and better! Maybe we all can
get together sometime when she gets home and feels up to it. We might
even have to get together and walk some.
Your Bowling Green friend,
Bonita
Dr. Houston/7-11-06
296-190

Today officially marks the nine month anniversary to the beginning of
a healthier and happier me :-) I have been truly blessed and have
never regretted my decision to undergo gastric bypass. My home scale
weighs me at 218lbs. I type this proudly too! I have lost 148lbs in 9
months. As I sit here in my size 16 jeans (from a tight size 28/30)
and XL (was 3X/4X)top from Old Navy (Yes, I can now shop in
the "regular" people's stores), I ponder what the next 9 months have
in store for me. This is also a time for self awareness and
assessment. I've become aware, with the slower weight loss now, that I
have become "comfortable" with the rules, some have stayed rigid, some
have been bent....especially around the holidays..."A bite or two of
this or that won't hurt right??" WRONG!! I have recommitted myself and
vow to do what needs to be done to get the rest of this weight off. I
know it is going to be hard and, you know, it has been hard since I
got back on track this past Monday....serves me right huh?? I am
exercising more consistently at least :-) My next goal is to lose
19lbs before my next appointment with Dr. Houston on March 8th..which
will put me at 11 months out. I'm gonna make it! At any rate, I will
probably do my 9 month photo tonight and get it posted. I know the
clothes I usually take my pictures in are swimming on me now! I hope
to see a difference. I get a little frustrated when I don't :-) Thank
you ALL for your kind words and words of encouragement. You all have
been a great support!
*hugs*
April Sisco
Dr. Houston - 4/11/2006
366/218/150 (for now)

You're toooooo sweet Jilllly :-)
*hugs*
April

Yes indeed it is Jill! Thanks for asking.

This is a very special one for me. You see, had I not had WLS, I would not have seen this one as I was supposed to be dead by now.

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston - 420/204/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

#-o Nowwwww I just had a thought...... =D
Love ya,
Jilllllly

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

We really ROCK!!!!
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

It's only the 11th of the month and we are almost at half the amount of emails we had during December......WE REALLY CARE ABOUT EACH OTHER!!!!! WHAT AN OUTSTANDING GROUP OF LOOOOOSERS!!!! :*
Love to all,
Jillllllll

#-o Nowwwww I just had a thought...... =D

Love ya,

Jilllllly

It's only the 11th of the month and we are almost at half the amount of emails we had during December......WE REALLY CARE ABOUT EACH OTHER!!!!! WHAT AN OUTSTANDING GROUP OF LOOOOOSERS!!!! :*

Love to all,

Jillllllll

I have had similar experiences all throughout this whole process.
Sometimes it is WEEKS before the scale moves..but if you keep doing
what you're doing, you'll see results. Also, check your measurements
periodically. A lot of times when you don't see a loss in the scale,
you'll see a loss in your measurements...especially if you're working
out. Hang in there!
April

[INLINE] I am very happy to see your postings! See you have a lot to contribute to this group and I for one truly enjoy reading what you have to say......sooooooooooooo you go, girlfriend!!! [INLINE]

Love ya,

O:) Jillllllll

Janie, that's the point! That's why the "serious doctor face." He has to make sure you understand that this is not a pie in the sky, super magic, all purpose, insto-cure.

A lot of folks are put off by him at first, but he's exactly what I needed to make my final decison.

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston - 420/204/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
OMG, Cathy, you were sooooooooo right. Definitely Dr. Serious! I came out really questioning what am I doing????!!!! Can I really do this??!??!! It was really a good eye opening appointment. I really liked him though. He was very up front and honest. My hubby went with me. He said he was glad he went so he'd know when to "smack my hands"! I have a habit of picking. That's something that is going to have to change. DID YOU GUYS FEEL LIKE THIS AFTER YOUR SURGICAL CONSULT???? Especially those of you who had Dr. Houston? He definitely makes you think! I did get him to smile a couple of times which put me at more ease.

Made me sweat!
Janie

I love the Loosing to Live!

I think it hit home!!!!!

Kathy G
paperstocker <BamaBIT@...

Okay, girls, I've read the suggested names but sorry, can't remember if these were submitted or not so just in case:
Life as a Looser
Living to Loose
Loosing to Live
Living it up Loosing!
Life Happens!

Okay, I'll stop now! LOL!
Bonita/Dr. Houston/7/11/06
296/185

Kathleen (Kathy) Gardner

Dr.Olsen

230/118

4/20/04

Sure hope she's feeling better reeeeaaaal soon. Hate to hear she's had a
rough start so far. Hopefully they'll get her comfy and she can get some
rest. the 2nd day. That's one huge advantage of having Dr. Houston for
your surgeon. He doesn't do drain tubes! AND you don't do a leak test
the following morning either. (Ok Dr. H you can pay me for this "free"
advertisement when I'm in the office tomorrow! LOL!!!) I had already
decided to use Dr. H as my surgeon but KNEW there was no doubt when I
learned about these two things!
Bonita/Dr. Houston/7/11/06
296/186

Where have you been????? I've missed you and hope all is well. I am
sending out lots of good wishes and hugs to you. When you have time,
let me know how you are...please!
Hugs, Jillllll

Okay, girls, I've read the suggested names but sorry, can't remember if these were submitted or not so just in case:

Life as a Looser

Living to Loose

Loosing to Live

Living it up Loosing!

Life Happens!

Okay, I'll stop now! LOL!

Bonita/Dr. Houston/7/11/06

296/185

Janie -

So glad you updated us on your appt with Dr. Houston. I remember going for that appt almost 10 months ago. I had a relative that had just passed away (in AL) at the age of 47 who 2 yrs earlier had gone through WLS. He'd had lots and lots of complications (was in the hosp for 1 yr following surgery). His family blamed WLS on his death. However, it was obvious that he'd not taken care of himself after WLS in many, many ways. And to top it all off, he had WLS for his wife who had basically forced him into it. He had it, went through the complications, and they still divorced - so it wasn't a "cure-all". So when talking with Dr. H I had to as realistically as possible face the fact that this relative had just died and was a WLS patient (a dr and hospital in Alabama). Naturally, I had to wonder was it something in our family genes that caused complications, etc? But I had to consider the risks of continuing to be overweight for the rest of my life and the risks of health
problems, etc. vs the risks of surgery. I had 100% confidence in Dr. Houston and never looked back. I'm 6 months out (tomorrow/Thursday) and according to my scales I'm down 110 lbs. If I never lose another pound, it's soooooooo worth it! Food is just food. You can let it control you or you can control it. And this surgery is such a wonderful and powerful tool in helping us in ways we were never able to achieve success before. My endurance and stamina currently can't even compare to what it was 6 months and 1 day ago. Life was pretty miserable. I know I'm probably rambling here - just realizing how blessed I am to have had this surgery and trying to compare the nervousness that each of our surgeons must have experienced when they performed their first WLS on a patient but they were able to work through that and become the wonderful surgeons they all are today. And man, am I so thankful they did and that our paths crossed! Done ramblin' now. Just know what you're experiencing
is normal and we've all been there. And we'll all be here to help you in any way we can. Hang in there!

Bonita/Dr. Houston/7/11/06

296/186

Thanks for the update Julie. I'll be praying for her!
linda
--- Julie Williams <jwilliams705resource@...

Kathy G just called me and said that Amanda is in a lot of pain...the nurses call Dr. and asked if the drain tube could be removed he said no. BUT he is changing her pain meds to see if she can get some relief that way. Kathy said prayers are good and she will update us tomorrow.
Julie Williams
Math Teacher
Western Math, Science, and Technology Magnet High School

Thanks for reminding me of why I want and need to do this! I think like Linda B., I was overwhelmed with all the info in such a short time that my head was spinning! I know that with you guys behind me, I can do this. It has made me think though about all the times I've failed and that scares me with something THIS BIG!! I knew it was huge, Dr. Houston just made it even bigger. If I made a list of all the reasons I want this, it would reach for miles. The question is "Do I want it bad enough to give up my "crutch"? I can say yes in my head. I think it's my heart that is questioning me. Food is not my friend. It's done nothing but give me grief all my life! But in the same breath, it's been my "friend". I could relate so much with you Jill! My daughter (14y/o) is so happy for me. One thing she pointed out to me was that it wouldn't 2 or 3 tries to get up off of the couch. I hadn't even thought about that. She hugged me and told me how proud she was of me. One of her
friend's mom had the surgery so my daughter is very familiar with how the surgery can change a life. I want to be around for her babies. If they are anything like her they will be amazing....and I'm not just being predjudice. HA! I just have lots of praying to do. I believe that I will without a doubt go through with it, mainly because I know I will die without it. I just have to get my heart and my head on the same wavelength! Please keep me in your prayers all!

I love you guys!

Janie

Wow! It really doesn't take much to excite you........but it looks fun...maybe I 'll try it. [INLINE]
cordeliajane2003 <mjloyd@...

:) :)) B-) :D O:) :o) Oh my gosh this is so cool! I'm so glad to find this! Thanks Cathy for the little instruction on how to use this cool tool! [INLINE] :-? [INLINE] /:) [INLINE] 8-|
OK get used to seeing more of cordeliajane (alias mjloyd) Oh this is way too much fun!
Doesn't take much to excite me, huh!?
See you girls later!
Janie

Julie Williams
Math Teacher
Western Math, Science, and Technology Magnet High School

Ultimately you will obviously make the final decision and do what you feel is best for you...you're #1..remember? ;) But I'll share somethings with you....I remember huffing and puffing as I couldn't walk far and dreaded the thought of having to and not being able to keep up with the people I was walking with, but not anymore....then there's using the stairs...oh my....that was a killer....not anymore...today I can walk and walk...ex: the treadmill purchase! I 'had' achilles tendonitis and it really hurt.....I don't have any pain anymore....knees ached....not anymore....I took some prescriptions...today I am TOTALLY off of ALL medicine. I don't like to use the word 'hate' but....I disliked having my picture taken....not anymore....I am just thrilled and very excited when someone stops me and gives me compliments....it's truly amazing how a person's life can make a 360 degree change in 7 mos.

I am so thankful to God and Dr. Houston for giving me this second chance to finally enjoy life! AND oh yesssss, being able to meet so many loving and caring individuals which make up this group! All I can say is....it's a pleasure and a true joy to know everyone! I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

Love ya, Jane Cordelia

O:) (I love angels & so do my little granddaughters. I have quite a collection....I didn't want anyone to think I thought I was an angel)

Jilllllll

Hey Jill!

Yes, he spent a long time with me. I ask him lots of questions and he talked to me very indepth. I felt comfortable with him and knew I'd have no one else do the surgery but him! I'm just nervous. I want to do this right. I know I can do it but it's going to have to take lots of support and time in Dr. Frye's office!

This is such a life changing thing! It's not something to be taken lightly for sure! I'm so sick of being sick and tired though. Not being able to tie my shoes. Coming home so tired with my feet and legs hurting so bad after work that I want to cry (sometimes I do). My self esteem sucks! I don't have the confidence in myself that I should have because of my size. Oh girls I could go on and on. You girls know what I'm talking about. I have to make a choice. Am I THAT addicted to food that I can't do with out or am I willing to do whatever it takes to make that commitment that is needed to be healthier. I have a lot of thinking to do. I want this and I want it badddddd! Am I willing to go the distance???!??!?!??

Sorry for rambling. Just thinking out loud! Thanks for listening girls!

Janie

Your post made me laugh, in a good way. My first appointment with
him was very confusing. But at the same time made me comfortable and
relaxed. I certainly wished after I got home that I had take a
recorder. There was so much information in a "thats the way it is
manner" I ended have to have a second surgery consult and it was
sooo different. It was before Halloween and he brought his son in
costume by. His son s a cutie too. And his wife is a doll. So by the
end of my second appointment I felt like part of the family. After
surgery he sat down and talked with my husband. They had not met
until before surgery.
Linda Tidwell
Dr Houston 11/6/06
210/183/135

Sorry I did not here about this till this afternoon! (I get digest)
Could you share more? Yes, I have been on depression meds for
years. My mother was probably depressed all her life, she is now
80. Depression meds is the only medicine that I still have to take
but I am afraid to stop. I have an addictive personality, I have
figured that out myself. When and where will he be having the support
group and do you think there will be any room after being on TV today?
Linda Tidwell
Dr Houston 11/6/06
210/183/135

You've done a maaaavalous job, dear Jill!

Janie :)

:) :)) B-) :D O:) :o) Oh my gosh this is so cool! I'm so glad to find this! Thanks Cathy for the little instruction on how to use this cool tool! [INLINE] :-? [INLINE] /:) [INLINE] 8-|

OK get used to seeing more of cordeliajane (alias mjloyd) Oh this is way too much fun!

Doesn't take much to excite me, huh!?

See you girls later!

Janie

OMG, Cathy, you were sooooooooo right. Definitely Dr. Serious! I came out really questioning what am I doing????!!!! Can I really do this??!??!! It was really a good eye opening appointment. I really liked him though. He was very up front and honest. My hubby went with me. He said he was glad he went so he'd know when to "smack my hands"! I have a habit of picking. That's something that is going to have to change. DID YOU GUYS FEEL LIKE THIS AFTER YOUR SURGICAL CONSULT???? Especially those of you who had Dr. Houston? He definitely makes you think! I did get him to smile a couple of times which put me at more ease.

Made me sweat!

Janie

Cathy,

You're another Emily Dickinson! I love it!

Janie

Looks like you found your colors too, Jilllllll........ [INLINE]
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

Linda B....here's how I found these little devils.....at the top of your new email it 'should' say NEW-COMPOSE YOUR MESSAGE WITH Rich-Text Editor (Beta)...click on that and you'll see the toolbar that Ms. Cathy is talking about.
I hope this helps you.....gosh, I was getting frustrated and finally saw the light O:) Hugs, Jilllll

Laura...I'm so sorry, how sad!! I hope that you can find her a great forever home. Hugs, Tammy
Laura <Lbrackbill@...

I am haveing to give up my sweet Weimaraner Here is the add I
have posted just coppied it here. I thought I would see if anyone was
looking for a wonderful exercise buddy and loyal friend . She is just
too much for me to handle and I am not sure how the outcome is going
to be in the long run for my neck . I have been put on hold as far as
PT and the gym I can still walk and ride the stationary but she
would pull me too much if I walk her :(
First off let me say if you do not have time ,the ability to work
with a dog or are looking for a meek little roll over this IS not
your dog !!! If you want a loyal enregetic freind who loves to
play ,be with her person and have time fora high energy dog you will
love her .
I find myself in a place that due to a neck injury I am not able to
give my wonderful 14 month old Weimaraner the exercise and training
these wonderful dogs need . If you know anything about them you know
Weimaraner need lots of exercise and play with their owners to
channal their high energy courius personalities . I love my girl
dearly but am unable to do this right now
She is about 14 months old house broken .crate trained can sleep at
the foot of the bed if wanted Loveing Blue Weimaraner She has been
spayed and will be due for shots around April or may /
Please if all you are going to do is chain her up outside do not
take her Weimaraner need to be around their owners to be truely
happy
Please contact me for more info
Laura

Hi Franny,
Being divorced for a long time, I dated a good deal and always found men who weren't good for me.....I decided that I was going to take time off and work on me. I must admit that I made myself #1....so I traveled as much as possible living in Washington state and AZ, too. I started to work on my inner self (counseling once a week for over a year and I thank God each night for that experience). I moved back to IL as I had been offered a great job with the company I am working for now.

While I was living in Chandler, AZ and worked at Honeywell. I met a young man whom I worked there and he introduced me to his father.....low and behold this wonderful romance started.....HE IS NOW 'THE PATIENT' I've been writing about. He's a great guy....sweet, kind, handsome, respectful. When I changed the type of men I was attracted to changed.

That's my little romance story. P.S. Maybe someone on this website has a friend, brother, cousin who is single...hmmmmmmmmmmm! We glad you've joined us, Franny!

Hugs,
Jillllll

Alright Amanda, welcome to the first day of the best of your life.
Darlene-

Whoohoo Welcome to the lossing side !!! Here's to a quick recovery and lots of pounds OFF

Laura

I just visited Amanda who had just returned from surgery. She did well
but is still very sleepy. Her parents and husband are with her. She was
able to have the proceedure by laparoscopy. Welcome Amanda !!
Kathy H
Centennial

Oooohhh... I just love a good bargin!

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston - 420/204/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

We have a nice Bergner's store in the area so I left work ...with my 20% off coupons in hand.....and went shopping!
I was walking thru the Misses Dept....yesssss I proudly say 'Misses Dept' and a sales clerk asked if she could help me. I told her I was just enjoying the time as I had lost a lot of weight and was excited to shop in this dept. She then shared with me that she, too, had lost a lot of weight as she had WL surgery and it was just 2 days after I did. Luckily, the store wasn't busy so we got to talk about our 'experiences' and share stories! It was a great evening. AND I got a beautiful Liz Claiborne sweater for $8 :x Hugs to all, Jillllll

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

AGAIN, I must agree with Ms. Spencer about Dr. Houston and his serious face. I was so impressed with him at my first dr.'s visit in May, 2006. I went to a dr. in my area and he so graciously gave me 15 minutes of his time and charged me $265 for the appt. I decided then that I would get a 2nd opinion and found Dr. Houston. HE SPENT A LONG TIME WITH ME....I want to say over an hr. if not more & his charge was $215....he took the time to make sure I knew everything about this life changing surgery. I kept asking questions until I felt very comfortable. I knew right away he was the one I wanted to perform this surgery on me. It was a WONDERFUL WONDERFUL feeling to know that I felt this at ease with him after such a short time. I still like him even though I got in trouble for not losing 50% of my bodyfat by Dec....by the way it was 44%.

Let us know how things go with your appt. and we will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers....way to go Janie!!!!

Love ya,

O:) Jillllllll

We have a nice Bergner's store in the area so I left work ...with my 20% off coupons in hand.....and went shopping!

I was walking thru the Misses Dept....yesssss I proudly say 'Misses Dept' and a sales clerk asked if she could help me. I told her I was just enjoying the time as I had lost a lot of weight and was excited to shop in this dept. She then shared with me that she, too, had lost a lot of weight as she had WL surgery and it was just 2 days after I did. Luckily, the store wasn't busy so we got to talk about our 'experiences' and share stories! It was a great evening. AND I got a beautiful Liz Claiborne sweater for $8 :x Hugs to all, Jillllll

Linda B....here's how I found these little devils.....at the top of your new email it 'should' say NEW-COMPOSE YOUR MESSAGE WITH Rich-Text Editor (Beta)...click on that and you'll see the toolbar that Ms. Cathy is talking about.

I hope this helps you.....gosh, I was getting frustrated and finally saw the light O:) Hugs, Jilllll

:D I am sooooooooooo excited....I've finally done it.... I've worked hard at getting these darn things to come up on my email screen!

It has sure taught me patience #-o .....now I need the iron pills to kick in so I can get some energy! If I could jump up and click my heals without killing myself, I WOULD! There is hope! Jilllllllllllll

Random bad poetry by Cathy.....

PERCEPTIONS

Today I am confused.

My shirt tag says medium.

My pants tag says 12.

Why do I look fat to me?

The same eyes that see

Such tiny sizes on tags

Look into the mirror and

See the woman from two years past

Then the very same eyes

Will glimpse in a window

A woman whose size makes me wish

That I could be as lovely

Only to discover that she is me!

Perceptions abound, confuse, and deceive

But daily I go on, learning to recognize me.
Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

I am haveing to give up my sweet Weimaraner Here is the add I
have posted just coppied it here. I thought I would see if anyone was
looking for a wonderful exercise buddy and loyal friend . She is just
too much for me to handle and I am not sure how the outcome is going
to be in the long run for my neck . I have been put on hold as far as
PT and the gym I can still walk and ride the stationary but she
would pull me too much if I walk her :(
First off let me say if you do not have time ,the ability to work
with a dog or are looking for a meek little roll over this IS not
your dog !!! If you want a loyal enregetic freind who loves to
play ,be with her person and have time fora high energy dog you will
love her .
I find myself in a place that due to a neck injury I am not able to
give my wonderful 14 month old Weimaraner the exercise and training
these wonderful dogs need . If you know anything about them you know
Weimaraner need lots of exercise and play with their owners to
channal their high energy courius personalities . I love my girl
dearly but am unable to do this right now
She is about 14 months old house broken .crate trained can sleep at
the foot of the bed if wanted Loveing Blue Weimaraner She has been
spayed and will be due for shots around April or may /
Please if all you are going to do is chain her up outside do not
take her Weimaraner need to be around their owners to be truely
happy
Please contact me for more info
Laura

Hi Group members...so many of us struggle with depression, low self
esteem, poor body image and other issues following wls...many of us
even pick up other addictions in place of food obsessions...On channel
4 today at noon, they will have Pete Pantazis presenting his new
program to Nashville. I have had two sessions with him and he is
amazing..I seem to have a clean canvas now as far as depression and
also with other issues I suffered from such as still seeing myself as
an obese person, suffering low self esteem and lacking self
confidence. I will be on the show with Pete, since I was one of his
clients, and I am going to join him in offering support groups in the
Nashville area to share my story to help others. He is truly gifted
at what he does. If you all can catch the show today then please do.
Pete has a real heart for helping those who struggle with emotional
aspects of wls.--Connie Jackson

LOL!! LOnely Looser looking for same. must be loving, caring, gentle &
seeking long term relationship. no other requirements except be real
and be yourself!!! contact franny!!!
LOL!!! I thought it would be nice to post a want ad in the
section where i'm at for someone special! please forgive me if i'm out
of line!
Franny
Dr. Dyer
12/18/2006

:(( Anyone out there know how to kick the winter blues?

They just seem to get worse every year, or is that just because I'm getting older???

I've already seen a Dr. and added new meds. but things just don't seem right?

Can anyone out there relate??????????????

I've been divorced 6 years now, and started dating about a year ago, I did find out there is not a "normal" man in my area.............LOL, so I gave up on dating....

Guess I'm rambling.

Late, and I should sleep, don't know what tomorrow will bring.

WAS smiln60

rachel

Dr. Olsen

12-02-03

lost 190 pounds @ goal

Oh honey, can I relate to this question.....lordy, can I!!!! I have always

said if a man is crippled, blind or crazy somehow I'll always find him

or he'll find me...lol. Or if there's a nut in the crowd....here's Tammy,

like there's a sign flashing on my head or something.

Getting on to the depression thing tho....I think just about everyone of us here has been going through a bit of this in one way or another. I don't know what kind of meds you are on, but I just came off three myself that I had been on for 7 years, because I'm ready to get my life back in order. So, I have been feeling a little strange myself and acting

a little wierd, because of the drugs, I guess. Maybe after a nights sleep you'll feel better in the morning. We are always here for you if you need us!!!!

Hugs,

Tammy

smiln60 <smiln60@...

:(( Anyone out there know how to kick the winter blues?
They just seem to get worse every year, or is that just because I'm getting older???
I've already seen a Dr. and added new meds. but things just don't seem right?
Can anyone out there relate??????????????
I've been divorced 6 years now, and started dating about a year ago, I did find out there is not a "normal" man in my area.............LOL, so I gave up on dating....
Guess I'm rambling.
Late, and I should sleep, don't know what tomorrow will bring.
WAS smiln60
rachel
Dr. Olsen
12-02-03
lost 190 pounds @ goal

I was just wandering how it is going with you and your treadmill. I bet you are weraing the belt out on it, aren't you. Proving "the patient" wrong....lol. Us as women have to do things like that ya know, or I would anyway. I bet the grandbabies enjoyed it also. They probably didn't let you use it while they were there. Children are such sweet angels. I just wasn't blessed with any, so I just spoil everyone elses.

Anyway, I just wanted to check in and make sure you didn't have any broken bones or bruises.....

Love ya,

Tammy

Janie, Be sure you do let us know how things go tomorrow. I'm so excited for you!!!! And it's like you said "one step closer"....YEAH!!!

Hugs,

Tammy
cordeliajane2003 <mjloyd@...

Ooohhhh I'm excited gals!!!! I have my surgical consult with Dr.
Houston tomorrow. It's just one step closer to finishing up this
process and working toward a NEW ME! My DH is going with me. I'll let
you all know how it goes!
Hugs,
Janie

Ooohhhh I'm excited gals!!!! I have my surgical consult with Dr.
Houston tomorrow. It's just one step closer to finishing up this
process and working toward a NEW ME! My DH is going with me. I'll let
you all know how it goes!
Hugs,
Janie

It made me ill from the start....the way she treated her mother and her brother. I didn't understand why she treated her so bad. I just couldn't

imagine being that in her mothers shoes and having her for a daughter

and being treated like that. Making that movie was the best thing that

she could have done tho, for the sake of her family. After all, it did

save the relationship with her and her mother and her and her brother.

I personally didn't like the "moos" either. The geek needed his head popped or something, at the least. But, I'm like you....some of the

movie did hit home with me too. Especially the depression eating of the sweets!!! Oh, well I'm rambling....but I did like the show. I guess you all can tell that, huh..

Hugs to all,

Tammy
Julie Williams <jwilliams705resource@...

What did everyone who watched think? It brought up some feelings in me although...I was much more agressive and didn't take the "moos"....without comment.
Julie Williams
Math Teacher
Western Math, Science, and Technology Magnet High School

got it
jyllyann1 <jyllyann@...

P O P = Pounds Off Paradise

What did everyone who watched think? It brought up some feelings in me although...I was much more agressive and didn't take the "moos"....without comment.
Julie Williams
Math Teacher
Western Math, Science, and Technology Magnet High School

There are many of us who "lurk" on here but do not email often. There are also a bunch of wonderful "live" support groups. But, there must be others, like me, who appreciate all the support we can get! I have dr's appt in Columbia Monday afternoon, or I would love to be at the planning meeting. I am one of you state employees--D.H.S. (also on groupwise), so will have the day off from work. Even though I cannot be at the meeting, I will be glad to do what I can toward the retreat.

Pam Banta

Dr Olsen
CATHY SPENCER <cathyjds@...

You know, there are 635 members of this group... only about 30-40 of us "active." Ever wonder what happened to everybody else? How they're doing?

Cathy, 12/20/04
Houston - 420/204/180
www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer
www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Mary,
Potassium does play a large roll in regulating your heart. My best friend had
potassium deficiency while she was pregnant and almost died and almost lost her
baby because her heart rate got out of control. She was told it was because she
was low on potassium. That is when I first learned just how important potassium
is in our bodies.
Dora
Lap RNY 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
Nashville, TN
447-363-165
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.-
Eleanor Roosevelt

It would be nice and interesting to see how the older post-ops are
doing now. I've noticed a lot of people just disappear after
surgery. They lose the weight quickly, forget they were obese and go
on with their lives. I think staying "plugged in," as I heard
someone call it, with the support groups and bariatric community is
so beneficial now.. I would think it would be even more so years
down the road. I also think that is why a lot of people gain some if
not all their weight back too... they forget where they came from.

Hey Kim,
That's why I love all of you so much!!!
Hugs, Linda Lou in AL.

You know, there are 635 members of this group... only about 30-40 of us "active." Ever wonder what happened to everybody else? How they're doing?

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston - 420/204/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer

Cathy Spencer (12/20/04)
http://www.PictureTrail.com/cathyspencer
http://www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer/

Talora,
Welcome to our group. I guess you just have a week to wait now. The time will
just fly by. I am glad you found us too. The people in this group got me
through some really rough times. They are the best. You will do wonderfully on
your surgery. I will be praying for you.
Dora
Lap RNY 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
Nashville, TN
447-363-165
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.-
Eleanor Roosevelt

Germaine,
If I had a nickel everytime I have heard that in my life I too would be rich.
Hang in there.
Germaine Petrick <petrick@...
you don't know how many times I have heard someone say" Gosh, you have such a
pretty face, if only you could lose the weight".
Dora
Lap RNY 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
Nashville, TN
447-363-165
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.-
Eleanor Roosevelt

sugar free popcicles...Kroger has a sugar free banana that's really
goooood. just load up on chicken broth.....mmmmmmmmmm!
Wishing you the best Amanda....we'll be anxious to hear from the
people who will be checking on you. We'll welcome YOU!
Jillllllllll

Exactly what Cathy says and DON'T watch the FoodNetwork. I don't
know why, but that is what I watched for days when I got home. I
think I was saying goodbye or mourning or something crazy like that!
But it was rather depressing and sad and I actually sat in the
recyliner crying.

Hi Beth,
Actually, I have heard so many on this and other boards say that your
hormones and body changes have to adjust and periods will be out of
whack sometimes. As I read that I thought "well mine hasn't really
changed" and I had my period 2 weeks ago. Well, guess what, I got it
again this weekend and I guess I should have knocked harder on that
piece of wood (LOL).
Like everyone said, give it a couple more days and then check with
the doc.
Hugs,
Presh in NY
LAP RNY 10/1/04
395/315/160ish

Sorry that I have not been too active lately. Not in the best of moods for some
reason. And my computer at home was running so slow this weekend that I could
not check my email. Needless to say it will take me a while to catch up since I
am reading email from Wednesday forward. Still loving you guys, just don't have
much to say right now.
Dora
Lap RNY 9-20-04
Vanderbilt Hospital
Nashville, TN
447-365-165
-Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.-
Eleanor Roosevelt

don't forget sugar free jello.

Water

sugar free, caffine free tea

Pray

stay busy

Cathy, 12/20/04

Houston - 420/204/180

www.picturetrail.com/cathyspencer

www.obesityhelp.com/member/cathyspencer
Amanda Strautman <mandyplay2003@...

Ok, only about 17 hours until surgery. I can't wait. I feel so much better now that the effects of the mag citrate has worn off. If anyone has any tricks on how to manage the clear liquids day that would be great. So far I am not sure how much more jello and broth can be eaten in one day. haha

have a great day

amanda [INLINE]

Ok, only about 17 hours until surgery. I can't wait. I feel so much better now that the effects of the mag citrate has worn off. If anyone has any tricks on how to manage the clear liquids day that would be great. So far I am not sure how much more jello and broth can be eaten in one day. haha

have a great day

amanda [INLINE]

I had an NG tube placed during my surgery but it was removed the
next day. Afterwards you cannot have one done because the tube
itself goes into the stomach and being that our stomachs are
not "normal" sized, you could rupture it.
Anna

I've always used the weightloss estimator found at www.cmcwls.com,
inputing a 70% loss of excess weight; however, around the 6 month
mark, I surpassed what the numbers were giving me... so I have no clue
where I'm "suppose" to be. I hope you find your answer Valerie!

Must not be true because when I do a translation it doesn't translate to
any thing lol I think years and years ago it was true, but that
practice ended. Where were they from in Germany? My grandmother's
family came from here too...it was so cool. Since my mom does
geneaology, she traced the family back. I've been twice to the Ickler
homestead here in Germany. It's only about 2 hours away from where we
are stationed. Thank you for prayers for my friend. She is going back
to wearing her huge clothes so that it hides her. I just can't imagine
being sorry for having the surgery...my life has changed so much for the
better with it. I really feel like I'll live to see and play with my
grandchildren (when and if I ever get any lol) Carmen

Okay, so I guess I am math challenged but no matter how I scrunch the
numbers I can't come up with the same figure the doc does for the
percentage of weight loss. Does anyone know how to figure this?
Thanks,
Valerie

Where in NC are you, Beverly?
Elizabeth Lynch
Garner, NC

My first period after surgery was also very, very heavy. It's
normal because the hormones in your body are a bit off due to
ketosis.
Anna

P O P = Pounds Off Paradise

You work for the state??? ME TOOO!! I'll try to make it down for the
planning thing too. Though, I hate coming into Nashville when I
don't have to lol :-)

Beth, I am a moderator and on the top right side of the calendar
page it says "add an event". If you don't have that just send me
your annoucement and I will post it for you.
Pat in RI

Carmen, We discussed this in my support group. It seems most of us
where large and ignored while thin girls where learning how to turn
off unwanted attention. It is a learned technique. Your friend
could probably use some consuling. It can be very hurtful, we just
don't have the skills to get rid of these predators.
Pat in RI

Hi Julie,

I will be there that day as I have appt with Dr. Dyer at 1:15 so I will be able to attend meeting, YAY!!

Donna M.

I don't think thats silly at all. I do the same thing. Every time
I step on the scalle, I think it'll go back up! It helps me to stay
focused!
anna
299/228/170
open rny

I had to really want to sew with those poodles. Jasmine would climb
up on the table and wet on all my fabric and I usually wouldn't
notice until I was sewing the fabric together. Mr. Spike spent much
of his life hiding under whatever I was quilting. It seemed to keep
him calm. In the summer I would wrap fabric around his head and he
thought he was hidden and would lye still all day. Who said animals
can't get jealous! The big dogs ignore me but those little dogs
where something else. One time Jasmine was pawing her mouth, I
looked and didn't find anything then I heard her making a noise.
She had a straight pin wrapped around her tooth. Go figure the pin
had no food on it, she was just being nasty. They have been gone
for 5 years and I still miss them.
Pat in RI

Hi all,
Can anyone tell me how to add something to the calendar so that all will get
the information, I wanted to add our support group meeting so that locals will
know about it?
Thanks for any help you can forward to me as I am new to this site.
Thanks and have a happy Monday - smile
Beth

I would highly recommend her talking to a pycoligist and I cant spell this
morning yet....I look at it this way...I was abused as a child...and yes I get
hit on alot even when my husband is around...but to wish I hadnt done the
surgery...Never...I would rather live with people hitting on me then to deal
with all the health issues and maybe even dying at a young age...of course this
is just my opinion I wish her luck in what she choses to do..
Kim Graby
Open 5-5-03
242-115
Carmen <kccjer@...
I just got off the phone with a friend of mine who had the Lap RNY
in Feb04. She wishes she had never done it! With the weight loss,
she is experiencing a LOT of unwelcome advances from the opposite
sex. She said it makes her feel dirty. If she had known how it was
going to be, she would have dealt with her 300+ on a 5'2" frame.
She has a history of sexual abuse from a family member and was a
victim of date rape also. Just thought I'd share this with all of
you. It's just a different opinion from all of us that say we do it
again in a heart beat. Any ideas to help her out???
Carmen (Germany)
Lap RNY 22Nov03
325/195/170

Andrea thoughts and prayers are with you during this journey to the "losing"
side...
Hugs
Kim Graby
Open 5-5-03
242-115

I just got off the phone with a friend of mine who had the Lap RNY
in Feb04. She wishes she had never done it! With the weight loss,
she is experiencing a LOT of unwelcome advances from the opposite
sex. She said it makes her feel dirty. If she had known how it was
going to be, she would have dealt with her 300+ on a 5'2" frame.
She has a history of sexual abuse from a family member and was a
victim of date rape also. Just thought I'd share this with all of
you. It's just a different opinion from all of us that say we do it
again in a heart beat. Any ideas to help her out???
Carmen (Germany)
Lap RNY 22Nov03
325/195/170

Hey there...it's me again.
I just wanted to send a sincere thank you to all here. I am soooo
glad I found this site. It is truly a blessing to communicate with
those who really understand what it is like to want...need... this
surgery.
I am headed off to my pre-op appoinments now but had to say thanks
first!
All of you are in my prayers every day
Michelle
pre-op
1/26/05

Susan,
I know that is a hard thing to have to wait for. I did it myself..
The only advice I can give is to take time for yourself right now.
Pray, come on here (great site), maybe take up a new hobby (I found
sculpey to be fascinating!!!). Just try hard to be patient...I
know ...easier said than done...It WILL be worth it in the
end!!!!!!!
My thoughts and especially my prayers are with you as you wait for a
date.
Michelle S.

I still don't have a surgery date, I hope to hear this week, I even turned
on my cordless phone with the answer macine, I so hate that thing. Waiting
for the date is worse than the two years of trying the flipping surgery. I
did the last of what they wanted last week on the 17. I just want to throw a
tantrum but I would need help up off the floor and that is embarassing. So I
won't.:(:(:(
Susan K

Pat,
You animal will let you quilt?? You are so lucky, my cat hates it when he is
sleeping on me and I try to knit. He will lay there and slap at the needles
or claw the work, or as a last resort roll over and put all four feet on my
chin and pushes away! He knows I will drop the work to catch the falling cat
and if I don't he gets right back up and harrassas me to no end. Spoiled
beastie but I can more get rid of him than I can get rid of my daughter. In
just a few days ( Ok Ok so it is 4 years from now, I am already suffering
from seperation anxiety) she will be off to collage and I will need my
bestie boy to comfort me.
Susan K

I was told that after gastric bypass, that a nasogastric (ng) tube
cant be used, is this true? if so where can i find that information
i need to send it to my insurance company.
Nancy

Welcome to the froup . Dr D is my Dr I just love him Hang in there with the program and the weight wil come off

Laura

Hello,family members!
I am Beverly. I live in NC but am originally from AL. I have been a
member here for quite some time, but I rarely post even though I read
every digest. Guess I am both a lurker AND an old-timer!
I am 51, married 30 years, 2 sons, a wonderful husband, and a house
full of both Manx cats and dogs(chowchows and chihuahuas). Never a
dull moment around here!
My surgery was 7/31/03, and I have not yet reached my goal. But I am
still hoping and working toward it, and would be thrilled with my
results if I never lost another ounce. Lots of co-morbidities have
been completely resolved or reduced significantly as the weight has
dropped off, and I am happy with what I have gained as I lost.
Best wishes to all from a loser in lurkdom!
Beverly
Lap RNY 7/31/03
268/175/160
I WILL reach my goal!

Hi I am Denise. I live in Va Beach. I had open rny on June 22, 2004. I weighed
242. I now weigh 146lbs.
:-)
Denise

Michelle, I felt better about a month after my
surgery. I think the reason it took me so long was
because of the two major surgeries so close together
and then being off my feet for so long with the blood
clot. It takes your muscles a long time to recover
when you've been "out of it' as much and long as I
was. My sister had the Rny LAP the same day and was
back to work in 2 weeks. I attended church for the
first time 5 weeks after surgery and it was my babies
dedication. I held him and he felt SO heavy. I guess
I'm not a good judge of "NORMAL" recovery but if I
could have all the issues I did and still be feeling
pretty good at 5 weeks out then I'd guess you'll whiz
right thru. Best wishes on your surgery
Faith

Reminder Reminder from the Calendar of Gastric_Bypass_Family
Andrea's Surgery Date
Monday January 24, 2005
12:00 am - 1:00 am
This event does not repeat.
Notes:
Just wanted to remind everyone that today is Andrea's surgery and we need to keep her in out thoughts and prayers.

Tammy...we kind of like you too! You rock girl!
Tammy Parker <bamagal4ever@...

Hey guys....whew...I made it!!! Boy, I have learned so much from you all here and it really paid off today at the visit. If I had went there and not met you guys I would have really looked like an idiot. I love all of you and I really appreciate each and every one of you too. Each one of you have touch my life in a speacial way. Each question she ask me I recalled at least something that one of you had said at one time or another. It was a very emotional visit for me and now I am one step closer to being a looserrrr and I cain't wait.
Love to ALL and HUGS too,
Tammy

My surgeon had me do heperin shots 3 times a day for 2 weeks following surgery.
Did anyone else have to do that? From what I understand the blood clot risk
comes from being immobile, if you are up walking for a little bit everyday this
will help reduce the risk.
Joy in IL
smackaroni33 <anghampton@...
hey guys I have a question! does anyone know for how long after
surgery does someone have to worry about getting blood clots? I have
an anxiety about this .
Thanks
Angela

Hey guys....whew...I made it!!! Boy, I have learned so much from you all here and it really paid off today at the visit. If I had went there and not met you guys I would have really looked like an idiot. I love all of you and I really appreciate each and every one of you too. Each one of you have touch my life in a speacial way. Each question she ask me I recalled at least something that one of you had said at one time or another. It was a very emotional visit for me and now I am one step closer to being a looserrrr and I cain't wait.

Love to ALL and HUGS too,

Tammy

Julie, please enlighten me as to how I get access to the
questionaire....you know I am slowwwwwwwwwww and out of it most of
the time.
jyllyann@... is my email address.
I was thinking about a name when I read Kathy's.....Pounds
Off...1.....2......aren't we having it for 2 days?????? It reminded
me of the Christmas party when we were repeating what Cathy was
saying for the skit.
Thanks, Julie.
Jillll